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User Topic: D & C scheduled for Tuesday. I need prayers.
Flatlined123
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Default  Posted: 2:45 PM, March 9th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Finally! Maybe this will help. I've had enough ultrasounds, blood tests and exams for awhile.

End diagnosis is that there is a suspicious thickening in the lining of my uterus. They are going to do a hystascope, biopsy and D&C.

Uterine cancer does not run in my family, but I'm terrified. It just seems like we're getting our life back on track and now this.

Then I start thinking things like what if I don't wake up from the anesthetic.

Can I please ask everyone to just take a moment on Tuesday morning and say a prayer for me? I need your good ju-ju coming my way. Thanks.


Me: BS 43
H : WS 46
DD #1 7-11-08
DD#2 8-21-09 same OW, A never ended.
Started R in 12-09
"If what doesn't kill you makes you stronger, I should be able to bench press a Buick."

Posts: 664 | Registered: Jun 2012
JaneDeaux
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Default  Posted: 2:54 PM, March 9th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Will do..


We must embrace pain and burn it as fuel for our journey. Kenji Miyazawa

Posts: 56 | Registered: Mar 2014
sinsof thefather
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Default  Posted: 3:04 PM, March 9th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Me too.


...second star to the right and straight on till morning.

Posts: 1861 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: UK
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 3:06 PM, March 9th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((Flatlined)))) Sending you strength, honey.


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


Posts: 25018 | Registered: Aug 2011
Chicky
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Default  Posted: 3:18 PM, March 9th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Of course. Think positive - you WILL be fine!


Half of the truth is a WHOLE lie.

Posts: 542 | Registered: Mar 2008 | From: Somewhere Over The Rainbow
brkn_heartd
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Default  Posted: 3:40 PM, March 9th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending a prayer for you now and on Tuesday. Feel free to tell the anesthesiologist that you are very nervous. They can give you something to help you.


Me-51 BS
Him 58-WS
Married 31 yrs, together 34
Affair Aug-Dec 09
official D-12/14/09
broke NC 1/31/10
second D 3/19/10

Posts: 1566 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Northwesten US
Newme123
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Default  Posted: 3:43 PM, March 9th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Absolutely. Will pray that everything goes well.


Me-BS 33, him-WH 31
Dday 10-30-12 the day before Halloween
Married 10 yrs
DS-14, DD-9, DS-2, DD-5m
Currently trying to R

Posts: 74 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: Texas
looking forward
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Default  Posted: 3:59 PM, March 9th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thinking of you....stay positive!


Memory and hope; one looks backward, and the other forward; one is of today, the other of tomorrow.
"Find a place inside where there's joy, and the joy will burn out the pain." (Joseph Campbell)

Posts: 2839 | Registered: Aug 2009 | From: Where a river runs through it
deena04
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Default  Posted: 4:30 PM, March 9th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Prayers to you...


Me BS mid-late 30s
Him WS knocking on 40 (lovemywife4ever)
blended family with lots of kiddos
together 5 years, married 8/13
D day 12/1/13
WH ONS had been 4/12
Getting ME back and moving to HAPPY - whatever that means
I want out!

Posts: 885 | Registered: Dec 2013
mainlyinpain
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Default  Posted: 4:32 PM, March 9th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hugs to you honey, let us know how you are doing afterward.
Pamper yourself and try to think positive thoughts.


DD 1 - 7/7/2004
DD 2 - 10/31/2011
DD 3 - 4/30/2013(or continuation?)(Yes)
DD 4 - 9/25/2013
DD 5 - 2/15/2014 (found phone from 2009)

Posts: 485 | Registered: Apr 2013
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 5:15 PM, March 9th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending hugs and prayers.

Posts: 34685 | Registered: Mar 2011
StillStanding1
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Default  Posted: 5:17 PM, March 9th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Absolutely. Prayers will be coming your way. Try to think positive!


Me: 40s BS, Him: 40s WH
M 21 yrs - 3 teens
LTA = 2+ yrs, Dday = 2/10/13, he moved out, he officially moved back in 1/25/14 and our work continues...

Posts: 656 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: MidWest
yearsofpain25
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Default  Posted: 5:25 PM, March 9th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thoughts and prayers are with you


25 years and counting of pain caused by mother's infidelity. Aftermath: 1 deceased sibling, 1 lost family, 3 lost souls.
"Each new day I am just glad to be alive and have survived all that I did." Ashland13

Posts: 1946 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: Northeast US
jjsr
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Default  Posted: 6:11 PM, March 9th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

sending good thoughts to you


Me: BS
Him: WS
Married since 1985
Parents to 2 adult sons and 3 of the cutest cats you have ever seen
D-day 8/6/11 Truth about ONS and 9/21/11 Truth about EA
Trying to reconcile

Posts: 1617 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: midwest now.
Lola88
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Default  Posted: 8:05 PM, March 9th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending you prayers and strength xxx

Posts: 122 | Registered: Dec 2013 | From: UK
RidingHealingRd
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Default  Posted: 1:07 AM, March 10th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My thoughts and prayers are with you. It is difficult but try to remain calm and positive.


ME: 54 BS
HIM: 61 WH
Married: 28 years
D'Day: 10/29/10
in R 3.5 years and it's working but he is putting 200% into it (as he should) to make it right again.

The truth hurts, but I have never seen it cause the pain that lies do.


Posts: 2109 | Registered: Nov 2011
Neverwudaguessed
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Default  Posted: 5:43 AM, March 10th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Will be sending positive energy your way. Good luck; we will all be thinking of you <3


BW: 44 Me
WH:48
DDay1 9-9-13 (18th Wedding Anniversary) 6 wk EA, 1 wk PA
DDay2: 10-25-13 EA/PA with same OW 12 1/2 years ago for 3 months
OW: XGF Predator who never stopped pursuing WH
DS 13
DD 11

Posts: 468 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: New York
nekorb
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Default  Posted: 6:22 AM, March 10th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Hugs)))

Just changed the label on my alarm for tomorrow morning to remind me to pray for you.

Anesthesia is scary for us, as patients, but remember that if the anesthesiologist thinks there is even the *slightest* chance you won't wake up, he/she isn't putting you to sleep. Period.

Take care of yourself. Let people help you.


Me: BS 44; Him: WH 47 aka CAT- colossal asshat; Married 22 years
D-day: July 17, 2013, with TT to follow
D filed July 16, 2014, 363 days later than I should have
Psalms 27:14
Wait for The Lord; be strong and take heart. Wait for the Lord.

Posts: 1832 | Registered: Aug 2013
TooManyYears
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Default  Posted: 6:24 AM, March 10th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending you a pm. Hugs.


Me- 40
H, rSA- 46 - 4.5 years of recovery with a CSAT and 12 step group
2 young adult children
Married 21 years
Last D-day 9/19/09 (Many before this)

Posts: 509 | Registered: Nov 2009
WhatsRight
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Default  Posted: 7:05 AM, March 10th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Absolutely I will be praying for you!


"Noone can make you feel inferior without your concent." Eleanor Roosevelt

I will not be vanquished. Rose Kennedy


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