Topic: D & C scheduled for Tuesday. I need prayers.
Member # 35862
| Posted: 2:45 PM, March 9th (Sunday), 2014|
Finally! Maybe this will help. I've had enough ultrasounds, blood tests and exams for awhile.
End diagnosis is that there is a suspicious thickening in the lining of my uterus. They are going to do a hystascope, biopsy and D&C.
Uterine cancer does not run in my family, but I'm terrified. It just seems like we're getting our life back on track and now this.
Then I start thinking things like what if I don't wake up from the anesthetic.
Can I please ask everyone to just take a moment on Tuesday morning and say a prayer for me? I need your good ju-ju coming my way. Thanks.
Me: BS 43
H : WS 46
DD #1 7-11-08
DD#2 8-21-09 same OW, A never ended.
Started R in 12-09
"If what doesn't kill you makes you stronger, I should be able to bench press a Buick."
Posts: 677 | Registered: Jun 2012
Member # 42630
| Posted: 2:54 PM, March 9th (Sunday), 2014|
We must embrace pain and burn it as fuel for our journey. Kenji Miyazawa
Posts: 65 | Registered: Mar 2014
Member # 29295
| Posted: 3:04 PM, March 9th (Sunday), 2014|
...second star to the right and straight on till morning.
Posts: 1890 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: UK
Member # 33226
| Posted: 3:06 PM, March 9th (Sunday), 2014|
((((Flatlined)))) Sending you strength, honey.
You can call me NIK
"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana
Posts: 25835 | Registered: Aug 2011
Member # 18622
| Posted: 3:18 PM, March 9th (Sunday), 2014|
Of course. Think positive - you WILL be fine!
There's a difference between giving up and knowing when you've had enough.
Posts: 560 | Registered: Mar 2008 | From: Somewhere Over The Rainbow
Member # 30396
| Posted: 3:40 PM, March 9th (Sunday), 2014|
Sending a prayer for you now and on Tuesday. Feel free to tell the anesthesiologist that you are very nervous. They can give you something to help you.
Married 31 yrs, together 34
Affair Aug-Dec 09
broke NC 1/31/10
second D 3/19/10
Posts: 1668 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Northwesten US
Member # 41119
| Posted: 3:43 PM, March 9th (Sunday), 2014|
Absolutely. Will pray that everything goes well.
Me-BS 33, him-WH 31
Dday 10-30-12 the day before Halloween
Married 10 yrs
DS-14, DD-9, DS-2, DD-5m
Currently trying to R
Posts: 75 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: Texas
Member # 25238
| Posted: 3:59 PM, March 9th (Sunday), 2014|
Thinking of you....stay positive!
Memory and hope; one looks backward, and the other forward; one is of today, the other of tomorrow.
"Find a place inside where there's joy, and the joy will burn out the pain." (Joseph Campbell)
Posts: 2855 | Registered: Aug 2009 | From: Where a river runs through it
Member # 41741
| Posted: 4:30 PM, March 9th (Sunday), 2014|
Prayers to you...
Me BS mid-late 30s
Him WS knocking on 40 (lovemywife4ever)
blended family with lots of kiddos
together 5 years, married 8/13
D day 12/1/13
WH ONS had been 4/12
Getting ME back and moving to HAPPY - whatever that means
I want...I have no idea
Posts: 1125 | Registered: Dec 2013
Member # 39134
| Posted: 4:32 PM, March 9th (Sunday), 2014|
Hugs to you honey, let us know how you are doing afterward.
Pamper yourself and try to think positive thoughts.
DD 1 - 7/7/2004
DD 2 - 10/31/2011
DD 3 - 4/30/2013(or continuation?)(Yes)
DD 4 - 9/25/2013
DD 5 - 2/15/2014 (found phone from 2009)
Posts: 496 | Registered: Apr 2013
Member # 31528
| Posted: 5:15 PM, March 9th (Sunday), 2014|
Sending hugs and prayers.
Posts: 36028 | Registered: Mar 2011
Member # 40144
| Posted: 5:17 PM, March 9th (Sunday), 2014|
Absolutely. Prayers will be coming your way. Try to think positive!
Me: 40s BS, Him: 40s WH
M 21 yrs - 3 teens
LTA = 2+ yrs, Dday = 2/10/13, he moved out, he officially moved back in 1/25/14 and our work continues...
Posts: 717 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: MidWest
Member # 42012
| Posted: 5:25 PM, March 9th (Sunday), 2014|
Thoughts and prayers are with you
25 years and counting of pain caused by mother's infidelity. Aftermath: 1 deceased sibling, 1 lost family, 3 lost souls.
"Each new day I am just glad to be alive and have survived all that I did." Ashland13
Posts: 2221 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: Northeast US
Member # 34353
| Posted: 6:11 PM, March 9th (Sunday), 2014|
sending good thoughts to you
Married since 1985
Parents to 2 adult sons and 3 of the cutest cats you have ever seen
D-day 8/6/11 Truth about ONS and 9/21/11 Truth about EA
Trying to reconcile
Posts: 1649 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: midwest now.
Member # 41540
| Posted: 8:05 PM, March 9th (Sunday), 2014|
Sending you prayers and strength xxx
Posts: 127 | Registered: Dec 2013 | From: UK
Member # 33867
| Posted: 1:07 AM, March 10th (Monday), 2014|
My thoughts and prayers are with you. It is difficult but try to remain calm and positive.
ME: 54 BS
HIM: 61 WH
Married: 28 years
in R 4 years and it's working but he is putting 200% into it (as he should) to make it right again.
The truth hurts, but I have never seen it cause the pain that lies do.
Posts: 2124 | Registered: Nov 2011
Member # 41884
| Posted: 5:43 AM, March 10th (Monday), 2014|
Will be sending positive energy your way. Good luck; we will all be thinking of you <3
BW: 44 Me
DDay1 9-9-13 (18th Wedding Anniversary) 6 wk EA, 1 wk PA
DDay2: 10-25-13 EA/PA with same OW 12 1/2 years ago for 3 months
OW: XGF Predator who never stopped pursuing WH
Posts: 653 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: New York
Member # 40306
| Posted: 6:22 AM, March 10th (Monday), 2014|
Just changed the label on my alarm for tomorrow morning to remind me to pray for you.
Anesthesia is scary for us, as patients, but remember that if the anesthesiologist thinks there is even the *slightest* chance you won't wake up, he/she isn't putting you to sleep. Period.
Take care of yourself. Let people help you.
Me: BS 44; Him: WH 47 aka CAT- colossal asshat; Married 22 years
D-day: July 17, 2013, with TT to follow
D filed July 16, 2014, 363 days later than I should have
Wait for The Lord; be strong and take heart. Wait for the Lord.
Posts: 1838 | Registered: Aug 2013
Member # 26108
| Posted: 6:24 AM, March 10th (Monday), 2014|
Sending you a pm. Hugs.
H, rSA- 46 - 5 years of recovery with a CSAT and 12 step group
2 young adult children
Married 21 years
Last D-day 9/19/09 (Many before this)
Posts: 509 | Registered: Nov 2009
Member # 35417
| Posted: 7:05 AM, March 10th (Monday), 2014|
Absolutely I will be praying for you!
"Noone can make you feel inferior without your concent." Eleanor Roosevelt
I will not be vanquished. Rose Kennedy
Posts: 1889 | Registered: Apr 2012
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