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User Topic: Just another thing...
aero1122
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Default  Posted: 2:20 PM, March 10th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So I went to sign my daughter up for gymnastics and there is 1 local place that everyone goes too and talks about how great they are with kids. Well I am looking online at the staff and the OW name shows up. Apparently her daughter goes there and she helps teach the classes.

So there is just another thing my WH selfishness ruined.
Now I will have to find another place for our daughter to go to outside of our town.
I told him and he says oh yeah her daughter goes there like I should have known this? He told me he knew nothing about her kids and they didnt talk about family, it was just sex. Just more lies....

So very disappointed today...


Me-35
WH-36
Together 18 years
Married 7 years
2 kids
D-day 12-7-13
Both currently in counseling
Trying to R

I am a warrior!
I will survive and thrive!


Posts: 101 | Registered: Dec 2013
Skan
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Default  Posted: 2:57 PM, March 10th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((hugs)))


Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012



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littleflower
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Default  Posted: 4:45 AM, March 15th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

WH's do get selective memory loss
It really is frustrating

I hope you find a better place for your daughter to go to

Hugs


DD 13/1/14
Him WH
OW now X BFF
3 kids under 4

Posts: 98 | Registered: Mar 2014
solus sto
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Default  Posted: 7:23 AM, March 15th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So your husband's nonchalant about his daughter not being able to go to the same gymnastics facility as her friends?

Has he reached remorse yet?


BS-me, 52
WH (Trac-fone), 52, PD
2 kids-DD25, DS18
multiple d-days
DIVORCING
Alone, most strangely, I live on~Rupert Brooke

Posts: 8700 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: midwest
aero1122
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Default  Posted: 8:22 AM, March 15th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

He is remorseful and came home from work and apologized that his selfishness is taking something away from our daughter.
He said he knew the OW daughter did gymnastics but didn't know where.

I have found another place for her to go but it is still outside our town :-(


Me-35
WH-36
Together 18 years
Married 7 years
2 kids
D-day 12-7-13
Both currently in counseling
Trying to R

I am a warrior!
I will survive and thrive!


Posts: 101 | Registered: Dec 2013
meplusfour
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Default  Posted: 8:36 AM, March 15th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

As it is now necessary to travel out of town due your H's acts, he should be responsible to do the bulk of the driving. Select a class and time when he is able to do the driving. Consequences, baby, consequences.


BW (me)42
WH 44
3 daughters, 1 son
Married 10 years, together 13
DDay 3/14/2013, four year PA
In R
"Sometimes you have to accept the fact that certain things will never go back to the way they used to be."

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