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User Topic: Making the right desicion
notmychoice
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Default  Posted: 9:15 PM, March 10th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I recently went for a case conference and my stbx offered me a lump sum instead of paying spousal every month. It worked out to about 5 years worth. It was very tempting as he has already dropped his income 12,000. in the last year since he left and plans on dropping it another 25,000. come spring. I think that it will always be a problem and he will always bring me back to court to have it lowered. I'm thinking I should ask for the house but Im not sure what to do. Has anyone ever had to worry about their ex getting the spousal amount changed? He just can't stand the fact that he has to pay child support never mind spousal support.

Posts: 32 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: the twilight zone
Tripletrouble
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Default  Posted: 9:23 PM, March 10th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

PM me. I can give you some insight.


40 somethings - me BW after 20 years
D Day April 2013
Divorced November 2013

Be happy with what you have while you work for what you want - Hellen Keller


Posts: 615 | Registered: May 2013
notmychoice
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Default  Posted: 9:38 PM, March 10th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

i'm sorry, I don't know how to pm can you guide me?

Posts: 32 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: the twilight zone
Tripletrouble
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Default  Posted: 10:15 PM, March 10th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I sent you a message. You should see it when you are on the forums home page at the top.


40 somethings - me BW after 20 years
D Day April 2013
Divorced November 2013

Be happy with what you have while you work for what you want - Hellen Keller


Posts: 615 | Registered: May 2013
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