Here is the Facebook Post or email that I want to send to the family members of STBXH and OW. But I won't.
"I'm so tired of being stepped on, run over, and taken for granted. Why should I protect those who didn't protect me? For those of you who don't already know, my loving husband and best friend since childhood were so concerned about my depression, that they fucked each other, on and off for over a year.
Granted, I knew BFF had turned herself into a CumDumpster in a desperate attempt to boost her self esteem after her own husband preferred sleeping with the woman she invited for a threesome to sleeping with his own wife. But she knew my marriage was not 'open' and I thought she would respect that.
However, I had no idea that STBXH was pimping himself out to anyone with a hole, and yes, that includes males of the species. I only found out when he forgot to card one of his on-line hook ups and the cops met him instead of the 15 year old he was grooming.
So now you can understand why I chose to leave STBXH with the kids, even though it meant losing our house and moving in with my parents. And by the way, my psych hospital stay last fall was not due to suicidal thoughts, but to save his and her sorry asses from homicidal ones."
Now that I've written it, perhapse the urge to send it will go away...Edited to correct stupid typos.
Two steps forward and one step backwards, is still progress.