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User Topic: Hurrah!
Pass
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Default  Posted: 12:41 PM, March 11th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

A while back, I was heartbroken when The Princess sent me a text that she had accidentally deleted all pictures of our kids (2004 to present day) from what used to be "our" computer. I told her to stop using it, and get it to a data recovery place as quickly as possible. That was months ago, and she hasn't done this yet.

This is because she is a fucking boob.

Well, I was on my iPod this morning, and found all 1200-ish missing pictures. I had forgotten I even had them on there! So I now have all these pictures back, and don't have to wait for her to do something about it.

I was so excited that I sent a text to 13 and 10 to tell them about it. I guess I could have kept it private, and not have to send them to their mom, but that would have been mean. So, I will happily burn them onto a CD to give to her.

Of course, that's assuming that she doesn't already have copies of them. She could have been lying to me about the whole thing. I really don't trust anything that comes out of her mouth anymore.

But HURRAH!


Loyal spouse: Me; Disloyal spouse: The Princess
Two sons: Now 11 and 14
DDay: Nov 15, 2012
Separated: Mar 2, 2013 after 17 year marriage, now divorcing!

The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous


Posts: 1886 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Ottawa, Ontario, Canada
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 12:48 PM, March 11th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

YAY!!!!


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


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Jennifer99
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Default  Posted: 12:49 PM, March 11th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

WOOOOOOOOOO!

Posts: 556 | Registered: Jun 2013
TrustedHer
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Default  Posted: 12:50 PM, March 11th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Please, please, please, burn a CD or two and store in a safe place.

Now.


Take care of yourself. There's a great future out there. It won't come to you; you have to go to it.

Posts: 5151 | Registered: Mar 2009 | From: DeepInTheHeartOf, TX
ThisHell
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Default  Posted: 12:50 PM, March 11th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yay! BUT...nooope! Do not take that initiative! Do not be codependent! It is no longer your responsibility! You have the pics for yourself, that's great.

She has a method of retrieving them and has chosen not to! SHOULD the kids tell her and SHE ask if you could, tell her to give you a flash drive at the next drop off and you will give it back with the pics, but only if she asks!


Me:BW, 34/Him:BH, 34/ 3 boys, 5,8,12
4ddays, now Divorced
We are not in Kansas anymore

Posts: 283 | Registered: Oct 2012 | From: NC
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 1:12 PM, March 11th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awesome!!

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Pass
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Default  Posted: 2:17 PM, March 11th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That makes sense, ThisHell. Thanks!


Loyal spouse: Me; Disloyal spouse: The Princess
Two sons: Now 11 and 14
DDay: Nov 15, 2012
Separated: Mar 2, 2013 after 17 year marriage, now divorcing!

The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous


Posts: 1886 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Ottawa, Ontario, Canada
h0peless
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Default  Posted: 2:23 PM, March 11th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That's great news! It might be time to invest in a small amount of cloud storage to make sure they're safe.

Posts: 1675 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Baja Arizona
Pass
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Default  Posted: 2:26 PM, March 11th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just did that, Hopeless. Thanks!


Loyal spouse: Me; Disloyal spouse: The Princess
Two sons: Now 11 and 14
DDay: Nov 15, 2012
Separated: Mar 2, 2013 after 17 year marriage, now divorcing!

The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous


Posts: 1886 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Ottawa, Ontario, Canada
PurpleRose
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Default  Posted: 2:32 PM, March 11th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What a relief! The doosh is an IT guy and photos/videos were his thing.

:(

I am glad you have your memories!


divorced the Dooosh
*****************************
even if you find your voice,
sometimes it does not matter anymore,
when you speak to a man who is deaf by choice.
~dodinsky

Posts: 3579 | Registered: Aug 2011 | From: Happyville
SBB
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Default  Posted: 3:56 PM, March 11th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Best.News.Ever!!!


I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

Posts: 5547 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
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Default  Posted: 4:32 PM, March 11th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yeah Pass!

T/J STBXH was kicked out and was given everything of his. He never has requested ANY pics or mementos at all. In 20 years, he has 1 picture maybe of his son. Nothing else, except what he may have taken now since Dday.

I will never give him a copy of them. As far as I am concerned, he left, he gets nothing.

Umm still angry, healing not completed apparently.


Me BS
WS: Just a squished bug on the window of my life!
Divorcing, STBXH is engaged/living with OW#3

They have a choice: they can live in my new world, or they can die in their old one." Daenerys Targaryen


Posts: 737 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Must Survive
grownapair
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Default  Posted: 5:10 PM, March 11th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Fantastic!


BS - me, 38, WH - 40
Kidlets 6 and 8
DD1 - I love you but... Jan 2010
DD2 - 5 Jan 2011, booted him out
R attempted April 2011, False R
DD3 - 5 Sept 2011, booted him out again
Dec 2011 - living together as a family
Jan 2014 - separated...AGAIN!

Posts: 162 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: UK
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