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User Topic: Doctor visit
Areukiddingme
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Default  Posted: 5:33 PM, March 11th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Went to the dr today to get checked for STDs. started my day out crying hysterically and it's been off and on since. I guess I will keep my hands and feet inside this roller coaster until it comes to a complete stop. I know that I'm going to be okay eventually, but I wish I could fast forward until then to get away from this pain. Right now I can't run far enough. Please say anything .... I just need to hear you all tonight. Thanks

Posts: 38 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: Southeast
scarednbroken
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Default  Posted: 5:50 PM, March 11th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

BTDT honey. I completely lost it in the dr office when I had to talk to her... Then the L that same day....

You will be ok... Be strong. Take care. We are all here with you.

((((Areyoukiddingme))))


BS: Me 44 WH: 50 Kids: 13, 15, 17, 28 DD: every yr Ow: tons Status: fed-up. A woman should never invest in a relationship she wouldn't want for her daughter, nor should she allow any man to treat her in a way she would scold her son for

Posts: 417 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: Midwest
yearsofpain25
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Default  Posted: 6:08 PM, March 11th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((Areyoukiddingme)))))

You might not be able to see this now but eventually this will get better. At a really dark time in my life after my brother committed suicide, a few days later I remember sitting on my bedroom floor and I actually said out loud to myself "I'm going to be alright." I want you to do the same and say that out loud to yourself right now. "I'm going to be alright." Maybe it will make you feel better even if just for a moment.

Wishing you strength and courage to get through this.

I will be thinking of you tonight.

yop


25 years and counting of pain caused by mother's infidelity. Aftermath: 1 deceased sibling, 1 lost family, 3 lost souls.
"Each new day I am just glad to be alive and have survived all that I did." Ashland13

Posts: 1846 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: Northeast US
4everfaithful83
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Default  Posted: 6:31 PM, March 11th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Aw Honey! You ARE going to be alright. In fact, better than alright. The beginning is always the hardest, but trust me when I tell you that those initial feelings of pain an anguish to eventually lessen. You are a strong, beautiful person, and we are all here for you. Come back often. I don't know what I would have done without my SI family.

Hang in there, it gets better.


Always know if the juice is worth the squeeze...

ME: 31
WBF: 27
Together 7 years
1 doggie
DDay: June 24, 2013
IN R...


Posts: 565 | Registered: Dec 2013 | From: Pennsylvania
nekorb
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Default  Posted: 10:21 PM, March 11th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Hugs)))

I'm so sorry. That doctor's appt sucks, doesn't it? Stupid WSs making us go through that because they can't be honest or faithful or keep their damn pants on!

I hope your results come quickly and that all is OK.

We've got your back! It's going to be ok.

It is.


Me: BS 44
Him: WH 47 aka CAT- colossal asshat
Married 22 years
D-day: July 17, 2013, with TT to follow
Heading for Divorce
3 kids: 15,17,19

Psalms 27:14
Wait for The Lord; be strong and take heart, wait for The Lord.


Posts: 1699 | Registered: Aug 2013
Skan
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Default  Posted: 10:22 PM, March 11th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

There's so many dips in this damned rollercoaster. So many places where the unfairness just fish-slaps you upside of your head. This is one of them. Please rest assured that the bloody thing DOES go uphill too. (((hugs)))


Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012



Posts: 4585 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California
sunsetslost
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Default  Posted: 10:26 PM, March 11th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

We got you. We are a strange family, brought together by dysfunction and pain.. But together....don't forget that.


Divorced 7/11/14. New Beginning on the Gulf of Mexico. It's real nice.

Posts: 691 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: The beach.
UneasyFeelings
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Default  Posted: 11:30 PM, March 11th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I just had my std screening today too. Instantly put me in a bad mood when I left the office and met up with the WW for breakfast. She could tell I was off, and asked me what's wrong. After a while, I told her I was just angry about the situation I was put in. You not using protection and potentially exposing me to who knows what.

Posts: 99 | Registered: Jan 2014
tushnurse
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Default  Posted: 2:20 PM, March 12th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((Kidding))))

That is not a fun appt. I remember it well.
I hope you were treated with kindness, respect, and understanding. It is amazing how often they see it at the Gyno offices though.

Remember to be proud. YOU are putting yourself first by doing this, and that is a step toward healing.

(((and strength))))


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

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