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User Topic: Broke my drought and it was horrible... T.M.I.
StillLivin
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Default  Posted: 3:35 PM, March 13th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hope this helps, never steered me wrong before.
If he has fantastic rhythm and can dance like the devil, he's usually good in bed too!
So take your prospective "ahem" friends, dancing. Especially if they can dance to Spanish music. Don't know why this is, but it's been true every time for me!


I don't need further confirmation of what a fuckwit he is. I already have plenty, thanks very much. -SBB
D: 7/2/2014

Posts: 2263 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: AZ
curiouswiz
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Default  Posted: 4:55 PM, March 13th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hey! I'm trying to eat dinner here! ahahahhahaa

Okay ladies, I had to check out the video, thank you for the laugh and now I need a link to show where or what a rabbit eared bob looks like!!

The menz must be loving this one..


God bless us, everyone.

Posts: 633 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Boston
risingfromashes
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Default  Posted: 6:19 PM, March 13th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Omg! Just saw the jack rabbit link. I spit out my wine!


There is life on the other side of hell.

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Tripletrouble
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Default  Posted: 8:32 PM, March 13th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That video link had me in tears!


40 somethings - me BW after 20 years
D Day April 2013
Divorced November 2013

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Posts: 638 | Registered: May 2013
h0peless
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Default  Posted: 9:00 PM, March 13th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

If he has fantastic rhythm and can dance like the devil, he's usually good in bed too!

That's not fair to 6'8" tall white guys.


Posts: 1694 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Baja Arizona
SBB
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Default  Posted: 9:34 PM, March 13th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

If he has fantastic rhythm and can dance like the devil, he's usually good in bed too!

I've done extensive research in this regard and it is simply not true. It's all in the kiss.

Plus, the sad clown was a good drummer who couldn't dance for shit, a SHIT kisser and largely mediocre in bed. I left him waaaaay better than when I met him but, alas, still not in my top 10. Love doesn't just make you blind it makes you numb too.

I used to joke that it didn't make sense that he was such a good drummer but danced like he was listening to a different song.


I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

Posts: 5578 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
Grace and Flowers
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Default  Posted: 9:50 PM, March 13th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I agree with you SBB! I dated a guy last year that was the most AMAZING kisser. (And also amazing in other ways! ). When I kissed him the first few times I went home and actually wept....I thought, damn, I was settling for sub-par kissing for 30 years....when I could have had so much better!!

We stopped dating but remains very good friends and still see each other socially. But he has definitely become the "bar" for me, kissing wise!


I'm Happy, not Sad!

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Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 12:52 AM, March 14th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

t/j to hopeless:

Tall white men can dance!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XQ7z57qrZU8

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7GaO0oMniMQ
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8KBE-zbxH3E


OMG, Tom Hiddleston's hip gyrations are killing me. OMG.


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9714 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
HurtsButImOK
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Default  Posted: 1:22 AM, March 14th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I just wanted to say thanks hurtbs, this reminds me why I am delighted to keep my seat on the bus for now!

Heading off to re-read the BOB thread...........



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Posts: 740 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Australia
gonnabe2016
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Default  Posted: 11:55 AM, March 14th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

<<< ok, ok. No sex IS better than bad sex. Bad sex sucks. Got it. >>>


"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott

In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.


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hurtbs
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Default  Posted: 7:45 PM, March 14th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have found that there are no tricks - people who are great kissers and amazing dancers can also be terrible in bed, awkward dancers phenomenal. Really what I think makes a person being good in bed is being comfortable in your own skin and paying attention to your partner, also not having weird hang-ups. I've noticed that there's been a resurgence of men thinking "oral sex on women is gross" , people who learn about sex from porn tend to be horrid...

At the end of the day, the only way to find out if someone is good in bed is to go to bed with them... just one of those risks in life.

Oh, and he is still texting me. I feel kind of bad because he wasn't a bad guy, just... I mean, he knew I lived 1,100 miles away. I'm a little surprised he's trying to make it something more. I haven't responded to him. I'm about keeping NC and there is no reason to hurt his feelings.

I mean, I finally dust off my lady parts and this happens?!


Me BW Him XSAWH
DDays 2006, and then numerous more
Divorced 2012

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trumanshow
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Default  Posted: 8:42 AM, March 15th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

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t was the same type of vibrator....I just LOVED it and kept reordering it...

Details please


Your ex wanting to be friends is like asking a kidnapper to stay in touch when they let you go.

The type of fierce loyalty that I possess made me incapable of comprehending the level of disloyalty that he possessed


Posts: 1752 | Registered: Sep 2009 | From: Charlotte, NC
cvs2kkids
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Default  Posted: 10:17 AM, March 15th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So... ended up being some of the worst sex ever. Sorry to get TMI, but he did that jack-rabbit thing?

Girls don't like that?

Just keep learnin'


Philippians 4:6-7

6 Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. 7 And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your mind


Posts: 226 | Registered: Nov 2013 | From: NB Canada
yearsofpain25
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Default  Posted: 7:30 PM, March 15th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

As a man, it pains me to hear how much bad sex goes on out there. Really doesn't have to be that way. It stuns me that, from what I've heard, most men don't take the time to be good at it. Never understood that and it blows my mind.

Every man's motto should be "ladies first and ladies often".

Sorry if that's TMI, but that really should be a standard in today's world.

Oh and BOB, let's just say W and I have a pretty big arsenal of them to complement what we do.

Jack rabbit sex? Never heard of it. Doesn't exist in my world.

ETA - and don't forget to include PIOB too ladies.

[This message edited by yearsofpain25 at 7:36 PM, March 15th (Saturday)]


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Posts: 2154 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: Northeast US
Ascendant
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Default  Posted: 3:41 PM, March 16th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I've noticed that there's been a resurgence of men thinking "oral sex on women is gross"
They still make those?

I thought they discontinued that model years ago...


I refuse to let a wound ruin me.
**Guts over fear.**

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