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thebighurt
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Default  Posted: 12:59 AM, March 13th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I was walking past a garden gate on my daily walk when I was startled by a Monarch butterfly that flew in front of my face, flitted there a couple of seconds, then flew off. A few minutes later, a brown butterfly came over a fence and up beside my head. It flew beside me for several seconds.

Later on, i was standing in the middle of an intersection in a city I've visited a few times lately, talking with a woman I've known for a year or so (whom I like very much, and who speaks broken English), and two of her friends I've just met (who seem very nice also). Standing there, a Monarch butterfly flew into our midst and swirled around ME, staying in my face a second or two. The others commented that the butterfly must like me.

Then, later ( back on my walk) I saw another butterfly and then a large "TBH" scratched onto the sidewalk.

I have no idea why all the butterflies, and why my SI initials were on the sidewalk...?... Is something or someone trying to tell me something? Anyone know about interpretation or have a book? Thanks.


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MrsDoubtfire
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Default  Posted: 2:28 AM, March 13th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Maybe it was the colour of your clothing they were attracted to.


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Default  Posted: 7:21 AM, March 13th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

If you google 'meaning of butterflies' you'll see quite a bit of fantasy & folklore. Apparently, there is an Irish saying that butterflies are souls passing through purgatory.

Other interpretations are that they are messengers letting you know that something good is going to happen to you. One of the good things is improved sex life

Butterflies symbolize transformation--a change for the good.

Somebody was 'obviously' trying to tell you something


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tushnurse
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Default  Posted: 3:38 PM, March 13th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

If you google 'meaning of butterflies' you'll see quite a bit of fantasy & folklore. Apparently, there is an Irish saying that butterflies are souls passing through purgatory.
Other interpretations are that they are messengers letting you know that something good is going to happen to you. One of the good things is improved sex life

Butterflies symbolize transformation--a change for the good.

Somebody was 'obviously' trying to tell you something

OR.....You smelled like a flower or fruit, my guess would be your lotion, or hair stuff was getting their attention.

I had this happen with my honey bees, unbeknownst to me I had a hair product that had lemongrass oil in it, guess what they bees associate with that? A queen, so everytime I went by a certain hive we had, I would get stung in the head, my H thought I was nuts, until one morning I was drying my hair, and there it was on the can of root booster, Lemongrass oil.....

So I guess you should be happy it was butterflies, cause getting stung in the head sucks. LOL


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thebighurt
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Default  Posted: 2:23 AM, March 14th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks, folks, I guess I need to google them.

One of the good things is improved sex life.

ANY sex life would be an improvement!! (Except rabbit sex! )

Tushnurse, Maybe the one in the city, but when I was on a walk, I was very sweaty and stinky. I doubt any part of me smelled attractive in any way.


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