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User Topic: Update to the date- men, please?
Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 1:33 PM, March 16th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks everyone for the good thoughts.

I did the best thing that I could for myself. Dairy Queen blizzard.

The corgis are an interesting thought. One of the dogs is very protective of me. He sleeps right beside me every night. Unfortunately, I had put him in his crate because I'm afraid that he would bite- he's a bit unpredictable.

I've been beating myself up about that also.


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 7440 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
gonnabe2016
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Default  Posted: 1:41 PM, March 16th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so sorry that you have to deal with this, WM.
{{{hugs}}}


"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott

In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.


Posts: 7711 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Midwest
lost_in_toronto
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Default  Posted: 1:59 PM, March 16th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Williesmom)))

I am so sorry.


Me: BS/39
Him: WS/37
DDay: August 23, 2009
Together 14 years.
Reconciled.

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monarchwings
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Default  Posted: 2:05 PM, March 16th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so sorry this happened to you. I am feeling so shocked and scared for you. I do hope you find the courage to report him. This guy needs to be exposed for the POS that he is. I am glad you were able to at least post here so we can offer you support.

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PhoenixRisen
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Default  Posted: 2:36 PM, March 16th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((WM))))
Please report this.
Even if you aren't sure about what was right or wrong let the police handle that judgement call (just like if you suspect child abuse - you report it and let the authorities handle the decision as to what is and is not abuse).

Please report this.

I helped a classmate report a sexual assault when we were freshman in college. What had happened to her was milder than your assault, and she just wanted to forget it, but I wanted to empower her and for the man to be on record because he was wrong to do anything against her will. The school police were so appreciative she came in because HE HAD DONE IT BEFORE and the women all retracted their stories. The police had been trying to get this guy but didn't have enough evidence nor a victim that would file formal charges so they knew he was a predator but couldn't do anything! Two days later I pulled into the parking lot to see him getting handcuffed!

Think of the other women you can save by reporting this. He has probably already started to target another woman online. Maybe it's one of us from SI.

Please report this.


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gypsybird87
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Default  Posted: 2:51 PM, March 16th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OMG. I just read this entire thread.

(((((((williesmom)))))))

I am so sorry this happened to you!! You've already received excellent advice here, but I wanted to add my hugs and support.

So very sorry... You didn't deserve this. NO WOMAN DOES. I do hope you take action against this predator.

Sending strength and lots of hugs!!!


Me: Looking forward to the future
Him: Left behind in the past

Rock bottom became the solid foundation on which I rebuilt my life. ~ JK Rowling


Posts: 675 | Registered: May 2013 | From: Oregon
MyVoice
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Default  Posted: 3:45 PM, March 16th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((Williesmom))))


Me:BW 46, Him:WH 50
two kids DD14 and DS17
Married 26 years
OW 28, crew member (he was the ships captain)
"People are formed by their actions, not their ideals" unknown

Posts: 469 | Registered: May 2012 | From: Australia
suckstobeme
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Default  Posted: 3:49 PM, March 16th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Holy shit. I'm stunned and so sorry that this disgusting POS monster found you.

I have no other advice than what has already been given. Please take care of yourself, be safe, and lean on everyone you can IRL. This guy deserves to burn in hell.


BW - me
ExWH - "that one"
D - 2011
You get what you put in, and people get what they deserve.
Hard as it may be, try to never give the OP any of your power or head space.

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persevere
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Default  Posted: 4:11 PM, March 16th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I've been beating myself up about that also.

WM, please stop it. Just banish the thought - this is NOT your fault.


Me: BW-44
Him: XWH-44
Together 9 yrs
DDays: 1/10/2011
Status: Divorced 4/27/11

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling


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metamorphisis
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Default  Posted: 4:12 PM, March 16th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

locking at Williesmoms request. We can open it back up when she isn't feeling so overwhelmed if she'd like.

[This message edited by SI Staff at 4:12 PM, March 16th (Sunday)]



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