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User Topic: i am just tired...
tara1110
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Default  Posted: 9:48 PM, March 15th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I moved from a different state 3 weeks ago... During the move I fractured my pinky toe... I started work this past week, did well minus the limping ( ironically I work in physical rehab)... My poor DS (2yrs old) started daycare this past week and I feel bad because he literally throws a fit every morning before I drop him off because he's still not used to the new faces... I was out of job for 2 weeks because of the move and I don't get paid until 2 weeks from now hence I am in a really tight budget.... Bills are starting to pile up... My dog's skin allergy was exacerbated by I don't know what and he's miserable... Poor thing... The house that we are renting is not fenced so I have to go out on a limb ( no pun intended) to walk my 2 dogs to go potty... Things hasn't been easy for me lately and I just feel exhausted...

[This message edited by tara1110 at 10:01 PM, March 15th (Saturday)]


Me BS:34
H WS: 28
OW: 33 (butter face... Thanks to sistermilkshake for the nickname)
Dday: July 24, 2013 (5 days after our 5th wedding anniversary)
7yrs together, married for 5 yrs
Status: divorcing

Posts: 86 | Registered: Nov 2013 | From: North Carolina
Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 9:55 PM, March 15th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm sorry. It's really hard to find your new groove, but to have a broken bone on top of it? ACK!


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9829 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
Bluebird26
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Default  Posted: 10:09 PM, March 15th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Moving alone makes you exhausted, with everything else you are doing as well it's not wonder you are tired. Try and get some rest.

Can you get some extensions on your bills that are piling up until you get paid?

((Tara))


"Loving someone should not mean losing you. Love empowers you. It shouldn't erase you. - Thelma Davis.

Posts: 1361 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Australia
tara1110
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Default  Posted: 10:34 PM, March 15th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

... Thank you for the support... I guess that's the only way for me right now... To get extensions for the bills... The physical exhaustion I can handle... The broken toe is still throbbing at times... But being tired emotionally is just another story... I'm only 8 months post dday so it's still very hard....


Me BS:34
H WS: 28
OW: 33 (butter face... Thanks to sistermilkshake for the nickname)
Dday: July 24, 2013 (5 days after our 5th wedding anniversary)
7yrs together, married for 5 yrs
Status: divorcing

Posts: 86 | Registered: Nov 2013 | From: North Carolina
Rabecca
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Default  Posted: 10:54 PM, March 15th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((tara1110)))

The emotional exhaustion is the most taxing for me. That is hardest to adjust to I think. I am sorry you are having such a tough time.


D day August 13, 2013
Me: 29
WH: 28
Together 13 years married 7 years
3 kids (5,3,10 months)

Posts: 63 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: Rabecca
Caretaker1
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Default  Posted: 11:05 PM, March 15th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Advil, hot baths, and tlc for things you like to do. It will work out. The new move sounds liberating. Rent a movie you like, do something you like to do, you will feel better.

Posts: 234 | Registered: Mar 2014
Lost15
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Default  Posted: 11:12 PM, March 15th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Tara)))

I am sorry you are going through all of this. Hang in there it has to get better.


me(BS)-34 him(WS)-32 DS-15
Married 15 years
Blindsided with divorce 07-12-13
DD-08-1-13 OW-40ish,married 20 yrs, with 4 kids she abandoned
Divorcing and trying to move one tiny step forward at a time.

Posts: 114 | Registered: Oct 2013
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