Cheating Hurt by Infidelity
Betrayal Wayward Donations lying



Find a Local Counselor

The Healing Library


Contact Us
In Association with
Infidelity -
like us on facebook
You are not logged in. Login here or register.
Newest Member: feelostandlonely (45327)

General Post Reply     Print Topic    
User Topic: Worst thing I ever did.
♀ Member
Member # 17217
Default  Posted: 12:41 PM, March 17th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow - is all I can say!

I was so angry one day (after ANOTHER broken NC)- and looking back, I know it was because I felt as though I had no control over anything. Today, I know that wasn't true..but thats another post.

Anyway, they worked together at the time and after I found evidence that she had emailed him and among other things told him that I should just "get over it and move on" - I was enraged - beyond livid. At both of them.

So..I posted her full first and last name on a cheaters website. On this particular site you are not able to edit it once its posted and names can't be removed. I didn't care. I wrote an explicitshort paragraph about her and posted it.

Now when you google her name it comes up.

I told my H I had done it, but he didn't believe me. Until one day, several months later, he came home from work, and turns out she had seen it and was extremely angry. I promptly told him to tell her for me "get over it and move on"

Me: BS
H had LTA with co-worker
Both mid-50s
Two sons - grown and on their own
DD - April 2010
Please note registration date is not correct. See my profile for details
Status: Your guess is as good as mine.

Posts: 1264 | Registered: Nov 2007
♂ Member
Member # 38122
Default  Posted: 12:51 PM, March 17th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yep, I did a couple things shortly after we separated. Nothing quite so out there as y'all, but it made me feel better at the time.

#1 - I sent The Princess a text saying that I had just tested positive for a STD (not true), but that I wasn't going to tell her which one, so she would have to get tested for the full suite like I did. This meant that she would be VERY worried for two weeks waiting for her test results to come in, AND it would cockblock the idiot(s?) she was banging at the time.

#2 - I went on a web site where kids can rate their teachers and not only gave her a lousy rating, but also said that she was a fat old woman who liked to dress like she is young and sexy. She is all about looking hot now, so that one will really sting.

I'm past the point of taking any revenge now, so I can trust myself not to do anything else.

[This message edited by Pass at 12:52 PM, March 17th, 2014 (Monday)]

Loyal spouse: Me; Disloyal spouse: The Princess
Two sons: Now 11 and 14
DDay: Nov 15, 2012
Separated: Mar 2, 2013 after 17 year marriage, now divorcing!

The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous

Posts: 2080 | Registered: Jan 2013
Topic Posts: 22
Pages: 1 · 2

Return to Forum: General Post Reply to this Topic
Go to :
© 2002 - 2014 All Rights Reserved.