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User Topic: Its just sad really
HurtsButImOK
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Default  Posted: 1:49 AM, March 16th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Was chatting to xsil the other night. We generally don't discuss x but I mentioned that I had seen him walking along the road I was driving down earlier this week. She gave me props for not hitting him .

She then mentioned that xbil was angry at x because he didn't bother to attend other xbil's bucks weekend (no strippers or anything unsavory just a weekend at their parents holiday house that all the brothers and some friends were at). I just find it so sad that his family, which used to be important to him, no longer seems to matter to him.

I really don't know the man child I spent the past 16 years with. I find that sad. Albeit relieved that its not my problem anymore.


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Posts: 722 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Australia
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Default  Posted: 2:43 AM, March 16th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I really don't know the man child I spent the past 16 years with. I find that sad. Albeit relieved that its not my problem anymore.

Astonishing, isn't it? I would have believed it if someone said he would cheat but never the other stuff. I would have bet my right arm that he wouldn't fuck me over completely and fuck his own kids up and make such a complete and utter fool of himself in the process.

I would not have a right arm if anyone had taken me up on that bet.

This is who he is - I get it. I just can't fathom how he hid it for a decade. Let alone why.


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Posts: 5382 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
norabird
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Default  Posted: 2:48 PM, March 16th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I love your attitude on this. It IS sad for him--and so not your problem too! Freeing.


Sit. Feast on your life.

Posts: 3580 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: NYC
PurpleRose
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Default  Posted: 4:15 PM, March 16th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yes, it is sad.

Sad what they allow themselves to do.

Sad that they dont take responsibilty for screwing over their "family".

Sad that their lives are trashed as a result of their own choices.

Good for you-- it is not your problem! Sooo true!


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even if you find your voice,
sometimes it does not matter anymore,
when you speak to a man who is deaf by choice.
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