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User Topic: The nerve!!
freeatlast72
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Default  Posted: 6:02 PM, March 16th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hi all! I don't post much but read a lot and everyone is so helpful!

Little background: Dday was NYE and WH announced he had feelings for one of our neighbors. He went after his best friend of 35 years bc he thought they were flirting with each other. OW has a daughter who is the same age as ours and plays on the same tball team that WH coaches. OW's husband left for a position in another city and they were on a trial separation. It all started as an emotional affair with lots of texting and parties that involved drinking.

Anyway, I saw OW at tball practice and our first game this past weekend. She actually had the never to speak to me! Of course I ignored her....next time she says something to me I will put her in her place and tell her we are not friends and if she wants to communicate with me I would be glad to give her my attorneys contact information! The nerve of her!

This is going to be a long season!!


BS:41 (me)
WH: 41
Kids: DD6
DDay: 12/31/2013
Married 15 years
Separated as of 01/16/2014,now divorcing...WH did not want to reconcile.

You can't rationalize irrational behavior.


Posts: 135 | Registered: Mar 2014 | From: North Carolina
caregiver9000
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Default  Posted: 8:59 PM, March 16th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My sympathies. I would continue to not speak to her. It will drive her far more crazy to be denied the importance, imo.

Not speaking leaves her wondering what you are thinking.


Me: 43, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 13 DS 10
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

Posts: 5608 | Registered: May 2010 | From: a better place
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