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User Topic: He thought of me!
PurpleRose
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What?  Posted: 10:25 PM, March 16th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Am I supposed to give a shit?

I got an email today from the doosh... He apparently still watches CBS Sunday Morning. I always did, and was able to get him hooked on watching with me back when things were good.

He sent me a video clip about children of veterans who now suffer from mental illness or something. Asked me to "please consider watching it" because he thought of me when he saw it.

He is for real? He is still trying to prove that I am the mentally unstable one! Gah.. What a joke!

I guess he was trying to say I am mental because my dad is a Vietnam vet? From before I was even born?

My instability couldn't possibly be due to his lying, whoring, cheating self eh? Besides, I was actually told by my IC that I have done remarkably well for someone living my life. I don't even see IC anymore, don't need any meds, etc...

The only part of his email that was worth reading was the first line:

I know I am the last person on earth you want to hear from but...

Yeah. Lie in a hole and rot, please. Thanks!

[This message edited by PurpleRose at 10:26 PM, March 16th (Sunday)]


divorced the Dooosh
*****************************
even if you find your voice,
sometimes it does not matter anymore,
when you speak to a man who is deaf by choice.
~dodinsky

Posts: 3524 | Registered: Aug 2011 | From: Happyville
SBB
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Default  Posted: 10:35 PM, March 16th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My instability couldn't possibly be due to his lying, whoring, cheating self eh?

Why of course not. Its always someone else's fault, remember! Just unbelievable. I'm not surprised but I still find it remarkable.

Yeah. Lie in a hole and rot, please. Thanks!

Too true. Be invisible works for me too.


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Posts: 5455 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
persevere
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Default  Posted: 10:38 PM, March 16th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm sorry PR, but as soon as I read your post all I could do was - AYFKM? He really is an idiot...lol.


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Him: XWH-44
Together 9 yrs
DDays: 1/10/2011
Status: Divorced 4/27/11

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Posts: 4380 | Registered: Mar 2011 | From: Texas
dmari
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Default  Posted: 11:31 PM, March 16th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh sheesh. This is his sly (well, not really) way of nudging back into your zone because if he can convince himself and others that everything is honky dory between the two of you, well then, what he did wasn't thaaaat bad.


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Settled at mediation
Officially divorced ... SOON!

Posts: 2129 | Registered: Oct 2012
PurpleRose
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Default  Posted: 11:38 PM, March 16th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

^winner! Dmari you are right... A friend told,me he had some dumb quote pic on his Facebook page about "just because I cut you out of my life doesn't mean I hate you it just meant that I chose me..."

Or some crap.

We had a good chuckle over the thinly veiled attempt to look like the good guy once again. (Friend assured me that no one is buying what he is selling)

What a moron.


divorced the Dooosh
*****************************
even if you find your voice,
sometimes it does not matter anymore,
when you speak to a man who is deaf by choice.
~dodinsky

Posts: 3524 | Registered: Aug 2011 | From: Happyville
thebighurt
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Default  Posted: 12:27 AM, March 17th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awwww, how very sweet!!


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Posts: 2189 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: the Other Side
ButterflyGirl
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Default  Posted: 1:07 AM, March 17th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Buuut, if you're crazy because of XYZ, then maybe he is too! No personal responsibility! Woo hoo! The ______ made me do it!


Sorry you had to read that from him, but be glad you're far enough out that you don't take it personal and can see him for the manipulating douchbag assface he is.

And way to take a stab at our soldiers and veterans. Stand up guy he is. Fuckhead..


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Posts: 2007 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Florida, USA
stronger08
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Default  Posted: 5:04 AM, March 17th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

dmari is absolutely right !!!! From my experience I think most WS' are some of the best spin doctors out there. What it boils down to is just another delusional asshole holding a rock and calling it a diamond. But in the end its just a rock.


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sparkysable
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Default  Posted: 5:17 AM, March 17th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yes, clearly all of your problems stem from the fact that you father was in Vietnam.

What an asshole he is.


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Posts: 3197 | Registered: Mar 2004 | From: NY
Pass
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Default  Posted: 8:11 AM, March 17th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What an arsehole!

There was a time when this would have caused a fresh batch of hurt for you. Now it's just an annoyance. Think of how far you've come!


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Posts: 1706 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Ottawa, Ontario, Canada
Gemini71
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Default  Posted: 10:15 AM, March 17th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm sure you sent crickets in reply, but it would be awfully tempting to say, "You're right. You are the last person on earth I want to hear from." What a doosh, oh right, that's his name.


Edited to correct stupid typos.

Two steps forward and one step backwards, is still progress.


Posts: 1556 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: Illinois, USA
PurpleRose
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Default  Posted: 5:06 PM, March 17th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Gemini, bingo! I shared the crap with my friend and he asked what I said in reply. I told him "chirp chirp".

But we both laughed when I told him I would like to say exactly what you came up with!

I have a restraining order... Doesn't the Dooosh know I do NOT want to hear his blame shifting bullshit? It really is laughable!


divorced the Dooosh
*****************************
even if you find your voice,
sometimes it does not matter anymore,
when you speak to a man who is deaf by choice.
~dodinsky

Posts: 3524 | Registered: Aug 2011 | From: Happyville
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