Ok so WH is with OW. A week ago he tried to introduce kids to AP.
I might add its 5 weeks out from d day and second time he had visitation (douche). For want of nothing but dumb luck it didn't occur, and I found out, after the fact..and all hell broke loose.
I felt it a huge slap in the face that he tried to bribe the little ones with presents and to play with her puppy. I told him that AP is no friend to our children, and as such does not deserve a place in their lives. He tells me that he wants to know how she gets along with kids before he starts seeing her (ass hat).
I said at the very least I deserve the consideration to be given he heads up before any such visits take place.
He agreed to wait "a couple of weeks". (Idiot) to which I suggested months....
Side note, he also wants miss 11 weeks overnight...in the past 5 weeks he has seen her a total of 30 minutes... She doesn't even know who he is. I'll fight that one on court if I have to.
How long is long enough to wait to introduce AP to kids. The older 2 know who she is and want no part of her