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mal2006
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Default  Posted: 8:14 AM, March 17th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

After talking and talking and talking and not feeling satisfied with what information I've been given about the A's, I am having WH sit down and finally just write everything out for me. Thoughts, words, actions, the whole bit. I hope he takes this as seriously as I am and gives me all of this information once and for all. I feel stuck and I need this to move forward. So exhausted...


Me: BW 28
Him: WH 28
DDay: 1/17/14

Posts: 68 | Registered: Feb 2014
norabird
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Default  Posted: 10:50 AM, March 17th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Here's hoping he follows through.


Sit. Feast on your life.

Posts: 4089 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: NYC
TheBestMe
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Default  Posted: 10:59 AM, March 17th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


In my case, H would not give me a timeline. So, I gave him one based on the notes in my journals. H was saddened by what he saw because as he put it "I know what I did".

I hope you get the answers that you seek.


ME Doing Better
WH Trying As Best He Can
Married 23 years
Status: Working towards friendship
D Day #1 - 2007 My gut told me
D Day #2 - 2010 His D told me
D Day #3 - 1/11/2013 OW Confirmed
LTA 7 years

Both feet pointed forward; positive


Posts: 412 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: Inner Peace
AML04
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Default  Posted: 11:06 AM, March 17th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I also write a timeline based on what WH told me but wasn't happy about it. Our new MC made him write one of his own. We started going over it in our last session and will hopefully finish it at the next. It's way harder hearing it from his mouth but it was very important to me that he had to sit down and really think about what he did.

I hope yours takes it seriously and you get the answers you're looking for.


Me-BS Him-WH DS 5/12
T-13 M-9
DDay 5/26/13, TT through 8/13
2.5 yr EA w/co-worker, PA 12/12 to 4/13.
Hopeful for R

Posts: 844 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: MA
mal2006
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Default  Posted: 2:19 PM, March 17th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks guys. He wrote out one for OW#1 this morning when he got home from work, then I told him I couldn't deal with reading about OW#2 before I go to school (she's the EA/PA and he told her he loved her) so he's doing that while I'm gone. I still question some things about OW#1 but it definitely helps to have it all written down in front of me so I know what I want to ask. Nervous about reading the rest tonight...


Me: BW 28
Him: WH 28
DDay: 1/17/14

Posts: 68 | Registered: Feb 2014
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