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User Topic: Job Mojo/update
tushnurse
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Default  Posted: 9:00 AM, March 17th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

so for those that have been paying attention, my H lost his job Mid February due to the company failing, and changing how they do things.
He kinda felt it coming and had an interview the same day he was let go.
He had a second interview with this company, which he likes very much, and knows most of the guys because he has worked in the industry for more than 20 years. IT went really well.
Friday he got an email, basically indicating the job he will have, and that they want him working by April 1st, but the company HAD to post the position with in and go through the process of interviewing the other 2 internal candidates.

So it sounds like thing are going to work out for us/him, but as we all know anything can happen, and I would so very much appreciate your MoJo, and prayers, positive thoughts, and well wishes.

SI is magical.


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

Posts: 8489 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
ajsmom
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Default  Posted: 9:18 AM, March 17th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Woo Hoo!

Great news but will continue sending it all your way!


AJ's MOM


Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.

"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
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Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
DS - 31 - Yikes!


Posts: 21050 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: Been Through Hell...On My Way Back
simplydevastated
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Default  Posted: 9:23 AM, March 17th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awesome!! Sending tons of mojo your way.


Me - BS, 39 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS10, DD7
Married, for now... (4+ D-Day - listed in profile.)

Posts: 5854 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: In the darkest depths of hell!
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 11:33 AM, March 17th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending super mojo

Posts: 35147 | Registered: Mar 2011
hexed
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Default  Posted: 11:37 AM, March 17th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

oh boy! that's good news but boy do I understand the nerves. Good luck to your H!


But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler


Posts: 8440 | Registered: Apr 2008
sisoon
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Default  Posted: 2:10 PM, March 17th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Won't stop the mojo until after the posting process is done.


fBH (me) - 70 (22 in my head), fWW (plainsong) - 65+, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/2010
Recovered, not yet fully R'ed
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Posts: 10066 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area
MissMouseMo
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Default  Posted: 3:10 PM, March 17th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Great news but...


...why the #$%&! do they even interview outside candidates and then tell them they *probably* have it BUT blah blah blah??


It is the gut-wrenching, down-to-your-soul honesty that helps so much. ~paraphrased from CancunCrushed
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knightsbff
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Default  Posted: 3:46 PM, March 17th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Prayers going up for him to get the job and start soon!


FWW 40's
D-day August 27, 2012
3 kids and 2 dogs

Posts: 1426 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Deep South, USA
Tred
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Default  Posted: 4:11 PM, March 17th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Mojo Tush! A lot of times that's just an HR move.


Married: 17 years (14 @JFO)
D-Day: 11/09/11
"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)

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metamorphisis
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Default  Posted: 5:25 PM, March 17th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sounds very promising tushnurse. I think they don't want to lose him and likely broke protocol to make sure they didn't while they went through the internals. I think it sounds good but I am sending you more mojo because I know you won't feel settled until that offer letter is signed. Not long now!



“We don't see things as they are; we see them as we are.”... Anais Nin

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Kelany
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Default  Posted: 5:35 PM, March 17th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Fingers, toes and legs crossed!! That's how strong my mojo is, I'm willing to give up sex for you!


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DDay 2 - Jul 12
R Dec 12

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wildbananas
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Default  Posted: 5:37 PM, March 17th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Mojo!


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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 8:51 PM, March 17th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Very encouraging, tushnurse. Continued mojo and positive thoughts heading your way


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-Hayley Williams


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caregiver9000
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Default  Posted: 9:24 PM, March 17th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

SI is magical. mojo and magic all the way!


Me: 44, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 13 DS 10
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

Posts: 5816 | Registered: May 2010 | From: a better place
mixedemotions
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Default  Posted: 12:19 AM, March 18th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Mojo!

Looking forward to the "he got the job!" post soon!


Me: Former BW, 28
Divorced 10/11/12
He didn't show up for the D...very fitting, seeing as he didn't show up for the M, either : )
"What did not demolish me simply polished me, now the clearer I can see" - India Arie

Posts: 382 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: Back in the Southeast!
tushnurse
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Default  Posted: 8:02 AM, March 18th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You guys are amazing. Thanks so much.

He did find out yesterday that another company, a competitor has another similar position available, and he had actually worked for this national, successful, company before, and left on great terms for a job in a different industry.

So he is calling the important people there today as well. (He even gets a company car with that job).

So we wait, but soon, very soon, I hope we have the news we need.

Thanks again all you wonderful SI Peeps.


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

Posts: 8489 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
simplydevastated
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Default  Posted: 8:04 AM, March 18th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It sounds like he has some fantastic options. I'm pulling for you both. I hope the perfect fit comes along soon


Me - BS, 39 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS10, DD7
Married, for now... (4+ D-Day - listed in profile.)

Posts: 5854 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: In the darkest depths of hell!
InnerLight
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Default  Posted: 12:25 AM, March 19th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending more mojo!


BS, age 53, d-day 6-2-08, divorced after 17 years and 20 together. dating again, living in the sticks with a cat. It's taking a long time to create new dreams and a new life but it is slowly coming together.

Posts: 5815 | Registered: Jun 2008 | From: Rural California
Lalagirl
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Default  Posted: 7:29 AM, March 19th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Mojo x100,000!!!!

Keep us posted!!


Me - 49; FWH - 51
Married 30 years 9/2/13
2 grown daughters-30 & 27
5yo GS & 20 mo. GD & GB #4 due 8/15(DD30) and 2.5 yo GD(DD27). D-day #1 - 1/06; D-day #2 - 3/07
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