Go See a Lawyer. Don't guess as to how this will happen, and think that just because someone else here did it a specific way that will work in your situation. Each situation is different, and assuming that without legal advice is surely a way to end up with a big mess.
You may not have to use a lawyer to D, and it may be able to be handled amicably, great. But find out the right and wrong way to do it first.
Faithful, you deserve so much more. Time to go get it.