about a month after my husband's affair we were trying to keep it together and went to the gym where I work to get in a workout together. I was a mess but this was something we always did together and made us feel good.
When we got there a local swim team was there having a meet and using the workout room as a place for coaches to meet or grab a bite to eat.
We tried to workout in there but a gal told us she couldn't have us in there while there was food being served. She was right, but I went off on her. And I mean I was a bitch. I surprised myself by the way I acted. We left and every time I see her she glares at me. I feel I owe her an apology for acting this way. She is NOT in our circle of friends but we know a lot of the same people. Heck her kids go to the school I work at.
She did not need any crap from me and I was out of line. this was two years ago and I guess I'd like her to know that I wasn't my usual self that day. I was suffering and took it out on her. I'm sure she's already told ppl I acted like this but I feel I should go back and make amends.
should I let it go or send her an apology?
his Ddays: 2/10, 7/11
my Ddays: 1/12, 4/12 broken NC 12/12
me (WW/BS): 48
4 kiddos in mid 20's
Me: I didn't sign up for this.
Him: you're already in this. All you can do is resign...