This time it's cervical cancer. Next time it could be HIV.
If you don't want to tell her, and you have access to the investigative forum, you can ask someone there to contact your friend since you want to stay out of it(perfectly understandable with OW being family AND just got out of a women's correctional facility).
She went to his house...she was inside his house..but claims not to have known a woman lived in that house? I call bullshit on that. BULLSHIT. She is just trying to justify and rationalize her shitty behavior.
Tough spot to be in..but you know she deserves to know...right?
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..that feeling you get in your stomach, when you heart's broken. It's like all the butterflies just died.
I would tell her. You said it yourself, you wish someone had told you.
It sounds like he's cheating with multiple women. Your coworker needs to know for her own safety, as some STDs can be fatal.
I agree with confused.
I am sorry you are in this position, but you have the ability to do some good here. Let her know her truth.
Strength to you, I know it will be heart-breaking to do.
I hate hearing things like this.
If your family member is still seeing the guy, probably out both, IMO.