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User Topic: Tonight's conversation is likely the end of our marriage
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Default  Posted: 10:02 AM, March 19th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Did you talk? How did it go?

fBH (me) - 70 (22 in my head), fWW (plainsong) - 65+, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/2010
Recovered, not yet fully R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.

Posts: 10090 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area
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Default  Posted: 7:33 PM, March 19th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so sorry that he was too blind to realize what a gift he was given. (((hugs)))

Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012

Posts: 4804 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California
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Default  Posted: 11:05 PM, March 19th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

HH1--this will be an unpleasant experience, but realize something that I believe you are unaware of: you are still young. You have a lot of life ahead of you to re-build. Be sure you have a good IC so that you can learn about yourself. There was a reason you picked someone this dishonest and cold. You need to find out why you did this and be sure you never do it again. Good luck to you.

Apparently I'm Boring
DD 1/1/14 Happy New Year!
Me: 54
WH: 54
Married 8 yrs
Adult step kids
Great Counselor
May reconcile
His affairs: 8 both Men and women
I see light at end of tunnel, may just be hell fires, however.

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