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User Topic: Reconciliation is like this analogy!
bitterbetrayal
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Default  Posted: 7:13 AM, March 19th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm only 5ft. I love having my hair washed at the hairdresser and the short massage they give. BUT my neck is really uncomfortable in the chair. I'm constantly trying to shift it to a better position. Reconciliation feels like this. I'm happy and love my WH. I love our life now but I'm in constant discomfort over the affair.


ME.BS 55
Him.WS 55 and a priest!
D-DAY 12/07/09
D-DAY-2 14/08/09
MARRIED 25 YEARS ON 25/08/09
BEEN TOGETHER 28 YEARS
TWO CHILDREN 20 and 22.

Posts: 160 | Registered: Nov 2009 | From: UK
rachelc
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Default  Posted: 7:26 AM, March 19th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

exactly how I feel. I love him and we have a good life but IT is always there.


his Ddays: 2/10, 7/11
my Ddays: 1/12, 4/12 broken NC 12/12

me (WW/BS): 48
him: (BS/WH)52
4 kiddos in mid 20's

Me: I didn't sign up for this.
Him: you're already in this. All you can do is resign...


Posts: 4779 | Registered: Dec 2010
steadfast1973
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Default  Posted: 8:32 AM, March 19th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

yep.


Me- 40- BS Him- 36- WH D-day#1 5/25/09 3 mo. EA d-day#2 11/06/13 Prostitute 11/5/13 in R
"I've seen your flag on the marble arch, our love is not a victory march, it's a cold and broken hallelujah."- Leonard Cohen

Posts: 2256 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: Midwest
somanyyears
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Member # 26970
Default  Posted: 8:36 AM, March 19th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


..yup... i've got a 'kink' in my brain, and an ache in my heart..

..that a massage ain't going to fix.

smy


trust no other human- love only your pets
She isn't and never was who I thought..I can't believe who I married and what she did to us.
Me 67
Her 63
Married 42 yrs (together 47)
18 yr LTA with bf


Posts: 4120 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: the sad state of affairs
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