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User Topic: Living day to day
neverdidithink
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Default  Posted: 2:03 PM, March 19th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

For 6 months I've been swinging wildly between trying to get through today and obsessing over what might happen in the future.

I pray that WH doesn't backslide, but that's really out of my control. He's struggling mightily with something today and doesn't want to discuss it. After some short-lived agida, I'm at peace with it. He'll share once he has had time to process whatever is on his mind. (or he won't.)

I have been preparing meals because 2 of the kids are living at home right now, but for months have been defaulting to far too much comfort food. This week I planned (and executed!) much healthier meals. I went for a walk at lunch time today despite the cold and wind.

I've felt so stuck for months now. I'm not sure what is different this week, but for some reason I'm ready to move forward, outcome be damned. I'll reallocate some of the energy from worrying about As to taking care of myself. Hell, if I didn't have an IC appointment tonight I'd go get a pedicure.

I have no idea why today feels different, but I'm very grateful that it does.


Me: BW 52
Him: WH 55
Married 8 years
4 20-something his and hers kids

Trying to understand the behavior of some people is like trying to smell the color 9


Posts: 320 | Registered: Sep 2013
unfound
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Default  Posted: 3:49 PM, March 19th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

enjoy the days that are good, and keep them in mind when they're not so good.

glad you're having a good run


ka-mai
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From time to time, I do consider that I might be mad. Like any self-respecting lunatic, however, I am always quick to dismiss any doubts about my sanity. DK

Posts: 14835 | Registered: Nov 2006 | From: mercury's underboob
AML04
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Default  Posted: 3:50 PM, March 19th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

And I hope you get your pedicure soon!!


Me-BS Him-WH DS 5/12
T-13 M-9
DDay 5/26/13, TT through 8/13
2.5 yr EA w/co-worker, PA 12/12 to 4/13.
Hopeful for R

Posts: 844 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: MA
1Faith
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Happy  Posted: 4:12 PM, March 19th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations. That is amazing and very affirming for everyone.

You are detaching with love and that is WONDERFUL.

We can't change the past but you are a shining example of how we can shape our future.

Kudos to you. ENJOY !!!


"I can be changed by what happens to me. But I refuse to be reduced by it." - Maya Angelou

Posts: 1105 | Registered: Apr 2013
neverdidithink
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Default  Posted: 8:45 AM, March 20th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm feeling a little less energetic today, but determined. Putting together a string of good days helps carry me through the not-so-good days.

I can do this, whatever "this" turns out to be.


Me: BW 52
Him: WH 55
Married 8 years
4 20-something his and hers kids

Trying to understand the behavior of some people is like trying to smell the color 9


Posts: 320 | Registered: Sep 2013
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