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User Topic: O.L.D. Rant - Please stop posting these photos!
hurtbs
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Shutup  Posted: 8:22 PM, March 20th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Okay, I know we all rant about OLD, but please, gentlemen, please stop post photos of you flipping the bird, it's just plain crass, and photos of you with a gun next to dead things. I don't care if it's the best buck, doe, fish, alligator, hog, pigeon, whatever the fuck it is, that you have killed in your entire life. If you're holding a gun smiling over a dead animal my thought is not "Wow, he'll provide well for us after the zombie apocalypse" but "Wow... he's going to hunt me down and murder me in the Everglades."

Selfies, shirtless, duck face, I don't care just don't flip off the camera and nothing dead in the photo!

End of rant.

PS: I'm sure women do creepy things as well... maybe there are also creepy women on OLD wearing camouflage and standing over a a recently castrated steer holding a knife, but I feel like that's a rarity.

[This message edited by hurtbs at 8:29 PM, March 20th (Thursday)]


Me BW Him XSAWH
DDays 2006, and then numerous more
Divorced 2012

"In life, unlike chess, the game continues after checkmate." - Asimov
"Be patient and tough; someday this pain will be useful to you." - Ovid


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devistatedmom
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Default  Posted: 8:27 PM, March 20th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

also when u right ur profile, there is a shift key so u can add capitols wear they r suppose to go i mean when u say i it should be a capitol also u can put periods so it isn't just one runon sentence and u can also spel words properly so it looks like u r intelligent.

Umm...writing like a 14 year old cool internet writing style at 40-50 something? Yeah, it just isn't making me swoon.


BS(me) 46, Two wonderful teens.
He is no longer my best friend. Repeat until it sticks.

WH says marriage is over: May 15, 2009.
EA#2 July 20, 2009. Legally sep: Aug 16, 2009. DIVORCED!!!! Signed Nov 23, final Dec 24, 2010, adultery listed.


Posts: 5477 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: Canada
homewrecked2011
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Default  Posted: 8:51 PM, March 20th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I agree with both of you!!!

And please stop describing sex acts you want to perform on any woman. creepy.


me BS 52
him - 46
married 15 years DIVORCED 10 31 12
children - ds15 ds12
d-day 12-19-11
I gave a 24hour ultimatum then went to attorney next day
Divorce filed

Posts: 2118 | Registered: Jan 2012
Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 8:52 PM, March 20th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

also, please don't make your screen name be something sexual like

Icum4u
Youme69

You get the picture. It's juvenile and gross.


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 7643 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
tabitha95
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Default  Posted: 12:09 AM, March 21st (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The other day the local news posted a new "most wanted" mug shots collage. I swear it looks like all the local guys on match.com


BW (me) - 45
DS 14, DS 11
D-Day#1: Oct 30, 2008
D-Day#2: June 3, 2011 (same MOW) Separation: June 3, 2011
Divorce finalized: Feb 2012 (due to 6 month waiting period).

Posts: 3250 | Registered: Dec 2008
dignityintact
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Default  Posted: 2:20 AM, March 21st (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

this has made me chuckle!!!

In the UK (no guns), but plenty of fish, topless shots, in front of their cars…..hey, ladies, look what I have!! Seriously…and they moan if they attract a gold digger I call it the "Peacock Syndrome"….sure is funny though.

Yes! to the writing….I'm totally put off someone who cannot not string a coherent sentence together….and if I get another "how's you doing?" I am scream


"Sometimes on the way to the dream, you get a lost and find a better one"

Divorcing - at last!


Posts: 94 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: Uk
Ellejay
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Default  Posted: 9:32 AM, March 21st (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I think there could be a thriving business for someone who is willing to get hold of these guys and coach them on how to take a decent photo of themselves. I don't mean they should look like they've just come out of a fashion shoot, just NOT wearing a three day old singlet (vest) with sweat stains perhaps?

Also, anyone with a screen name of Stevo, Davo or Gazza is not even going to get a look in unless you are just looking for a drinking buddy.

Worst screen name I've seen recently? 5fingers4u.
Yep, I've used up all my stamps for that one.


EJ


Married 25 years now divorced.
D-Day: 20/11/10
Me: 48.5 plus 10% GST
Him: mental age 6 (apologies to all 6 year olds)
Betrayal: Who cares anymore?

Posts: 1094 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Adelaide, South Australia
GotPlayed
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Default  Posted: 9:55 AM, March 21st (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow... he's going to hunt me down and murder me in the Everglades

This reminded me of this Louis CK monologue on dating.

http://bit.ly/1fJxZ4k

"How do women still go out with guys when you consider the fact that the #1 threat to women is men? Globally and historically we're the #1 cause of mayhem and injury. We're the worst thing that's ever happened to them. You know what the worst thing that happens to us? Heart disease!.. ... but women are 'sure, I'll go out with you, alone at night'.. what are you, nuts?? - hi, where are we going? - to your death, statistically!"

[This message edited by GotPlayed at 9:57 AM, March 21st, 2014 (Friday)]


Master of my Fate, Captain of my Soul.
BS 42, WW 41. 18y married
DD: 11/5/13
DS10 Autism, DD8
OM: Reformed wife-beater ex-con
D filed 1/14/14 by WW (never warn them, they'll get ahead)
Married a powder keg

Posts: 727 | Registered: Nov 2013 | From: California
HopeImOverIt
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Default  Posted: 10:42 AM, March 21st (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I think there could be a thriving business for someone who is willing to get hold of these guys and coach them on how to take a decent photo of themselves.

Ha, I had a guy write me: "Can you help me out? What changes should I make to my profile to get someone like you to respond to me?"

I recognized it as a line but thought, OK, I am willing to clue this guy in and tell him "Remove that shirtless photo!"

I wasn't interested in him, so didn't correspond further, even after he took my advice and removed that photo. But maybe I'll earn some good Karma for giving free advice.



Me: BW (50)
ExWH: (51)
2 teen-age boys
Divorced

Posts: 261 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: PA
nutmegkitty
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Default  Posted: 10:51 AM, March 21st (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I think there could be a thriving business for someone who is willing to get hold of these guys and coach them on how to take a decent photo of themselves.

I know a photog who does just this. She has a thriving business!



me (BS)
him (NPD Ex)
2 dds
DDay 10/7/11
OW
OC

Divorced 1/17/2013

"Diamonds aren't a girl's best friend, freedom is."


Posts: 2589 | Registered: Nov 2011 | From: MA
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 1:52 PM, March 21st (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This reminded me of this Louis CK monologue on dating.
LOVE that bit! The first time I saw it, I had to keep pausing the replay because I was DYING! I am giggling at my desk now just thinking about it.


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


Posts: 25308 | Registered: Aug 2011
hurtbs
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Default  Posted: 6:30 PM, March 21st (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I actually don't mind a shirtless photo as long as they're not *all* shirtless photos! Also, it's better if its contextual (e.g. at the beach) versus a shirt pulled up, pants half unbuttoned, dirty-bathroom, mirror selfie.

I just really hate the gun in hand smiling over a (literally) bloody carcass. I mean... really?! really?! Also why post photos of yourself flipping off the camera? Are you 13?


Me BW Him XSAWH
DDays 2006, and then numerous more
Divorced 2012

"In life, unlike chess, the game continues after checkmate." - Asimov
"Be patient and tough; someday this pain will be useful to you." - Ovid


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Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 6:38 PM, March 21st (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Are you serious? People actually post photos of them flipping the bird? That just astounds me.


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9658 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
little turtle
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Default  Posted: 7:04 PM, March 21st (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I didn't mind the hunter photos. I guess I'm used to it since I grew up with a family of hunters. I enjoyed watching a deer turn into venison.

I do agree with you on the photos of guys giving the finger. There's no value in having a photo like that on your profile. Well, I guess it helps with the weeding process since you won't be sending him a message!!


Failure is success if we learn from it.

Posts: 4166 | Registered: Aug 2007 | From: michigan
ProbableIceCream
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Default  Posted: 8:52 PM, March 21st (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

http://www.cdc.gov/women/lcod/2010/index.htm

Heart disease and cancer are the #1 causes of death in women in the US.

However.. see http://www.cdc.gov/women/lcod/2010/WomenAll_2010.pdf

Again, for women in the US --

Ages 1-34 it's unintentional injuries followed by birth defects, cancer, or suicide. 35-44 it's cancer followed by unintentional injuries followed by heart disease. 45-54 it's cancer followed by heart disease followed by unintentional injuries.

Homicide is not ranked very high for any age group except 1-4 (8.3%).


Me, 32. DD, 8. DS, 6 (deceased).

Posts: 826 | Registered: Nov 2012
CheshCat
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Default  Posted: 2:39 AM, March 22nd (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What????

I LOVE those photos!

Bullet dodged.
Bullet dodged.
Bullet dodged.

:D

(I actually like some of the ones you listed, and have "check please" on a few others... Like do NOT pimp your kids for dates. But seriously... I like not wasting time. When someone posts something I rabidly disagree with, it's AWESOME! Because I can pass.)

Chesh >^..^<


"Another conversation killed awkwardly! Yes! Point to my side." - Chesh's Brother

Moi : BS MH 30mumble
Him : WS Abuse Adultery Addict Six-figure Sociopath = Aaass
... I picked a winner!
DDay - 2006 ad naseam
Divorced! 2013


Posts: 571 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: West Coast US
SBB
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Default  Posted: 4:26 AM, March 22nd (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm laughing my head off. All.of.it.

My foray into OLD was for a few weeks after DD. I kept thinking WTF? Guys out the weirdest pics up. Pouting selfies are not a good look anyone. Neither is lifting your shirt to show me your abs.

A GF of mine is gay and likes to send me pics she comes across on lesbian OLD to prove women are just as bad.

One was a woman in high vis wear in a disabled toilet. Seriously?


I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

Posts: 5557 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
tabitha95
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Default  Posted: 12:15 AM, March 24th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

"bigbonetyrone" just viewed my profile. Thank goodness he has no photos. Don't be jealous ladies!


BW (me) - 45
DS 14, DS 11
D-Day#1: Oct 30, 2008
D-Day#2: June 3, 2011 (same MOW) Separation: June 3, 2011
Divorce finalized: Feb 2012 (due to 6 month waiting period).

Posts: 3250 | Registered: Dec 2008
BAB61
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Default  Posted: 12:53 AM, March 24th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh em gee! LoL I haven't taken the step into OLD yet, but oh my CANNOT wait to now! I need the laughs! Seriously? BigBoneTyrone? Hahaha


Boss A** B*tch
BS/52 Me, STBXpos/56, dd's 16&14
1st D-day 10/19/2013 EA/PA
2nd D-day 12/7/2013 LTA/Rendezvous
S 12/7/2013 No-fault state, 6 mo S, counting down the days.

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