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User Topic: podcasts and other help -- Admin?
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Question  Posted: 2:53 AM, March 21st (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

NO SOLICITING: does not allow soliciting of any kind, publicly OR via Private Message. This includes threads with links to other relationship sites and charities and self serving voting sites, social networking, etc. If you have a product, service or Website you believe to be in the interest of, please contact an Administrator.

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I have checked out some of the links in The Healing Library. I am reading Relationship Rescue (which I have found to be tremendously helpful). We have a stack of relationship books (How to Help Your Spouse Heal From Your Affair, The Five Love Languages, Love Busters, etc.). However, I am looking for more. Specifically, I am looking for podcasts about surviving infidelity. I've found a couple of fairly good ones which deal with marriage, but I listen to them and just think "Wow, if only I had heard/ listened to this message a few years ago, how different things might have been" or "That's great, but I don't think that covers/ addresses the sh!t-storm I'm trying to clean up after."

What have you found outside our SI community, IC/ MC, and the oft-recommended books which have helped you help yourself, your spouse, your reconciliation, and/ or your relationship?

Me: WW
DDay: 10 Aug 2012

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Default  Posted: 6:11 AM, March 21st (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Get on Beyond Tab seminars, choose teleseminars. They have dozens of archived seminars that I have found tremendously useful. Initially I listened daily, now only occasionally for a "tuneup". Hope they are helpful to you as well!!

Just one beggar telling another beggar where to find bread....

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Red  Posted: 8:26 AM, March 21st (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Resources are ok though we do discourage linking to other sites with forums to avoid problems

FBH - 42
FWW - 43 (BrokenRoad)
2 kids 7&12

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Default  Posted: 8:35 AM, March 21st (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I spoke with the wife of this organization several times by phone in the year after DDay. Her husband had a three year infidelity with her best friend. They have authored a book, Unfaithful. (Don't know if she still takes personal phone calls but she was tremendously helpful to me.)

Hope & Healing

Video and podcasts are here:

Him FWH [Dr.NewMan]
Married 23 y/4 children In R
DDay #1 7/20/09 DDay #2 7/28/09 (2 As,both with *PSEUDO*friends)

Had him first. Have him last. Just wish I could have had him ONLY.

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Default  Posted: 9:17 AM, March 21st (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks for the clarification, WifeHad5.

I've been listening to One Extraordinary Marriage. The couple have drawn up divorce papers twice and he was addicted to porn.

Also, I just discovered Undone, Redone. This couple actually did divorce and they remarried after 6 years.

Although neither is focused on helping a post-Affair couple, they both have advice for fostering healthy relationships.

Me: WW
DDay: 10 Aug 2012

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Default  Posted: 10:49 AM, March 21st (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Check out the Books forum here for some recos. has a lot of good free resources and no forums.

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DDay - 12/2010
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