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User Topic: What if they won't sign?
thenon-goddess
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Default  Posted: 5:23 AM, March 21st (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What do I do if he won't sign the acknowledgement of receipt of summons?


Status: divorcing
Typing on an iPhone - please excuse the typos!

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one2ndchance
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Default  Posted: 11:37 AM, March 21st (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm assuming they were mailed to him and he hasn't responded. You will have to contact your lawyer. He will have to hire a professional process server that will deliver the papers to him personally at his place of employment or his residence.


Me: BW 59
Him: STBXWH 61
Married: 25 years
DDay1: 2/2002; DDay2: 6/2012
Gave him his second chance and he blew it.
Divorcing

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Gemini71
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Default  Posted: 11:55 AM, March 21st (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I think I remember you saying you're working on this without laywers. If so, you can google "process servers in ..." for your area. They're expensive, but very necessary in these cases.


Edited to correct stupid typos.

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mof2
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Default  Posted: 12:03 PM, March 21st (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Did you serve WS? They basically have to sign if they are served.


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WH - Cheating Swine 43
Dday - February 12, 2013....a week before I was to give birth to the child I miscarried and 12 days before our 5th anniversary.

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Catwoman
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Default  Posted: 12:08 PM, March 21st (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

In most states, you cannot serve the other party.

Did a process server serve the paperwork on him? If so, they normally file a form that indicates they served the individual.

Cat


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Ex & OW Broke up 12-10
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thenon-goddess
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Default  Posted: 2:35 PM, March 21st (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks. Yes, Gemeni, no lawyers. I had to call around today, apparently I can have the sheriffs office serve for $30 an attempt.


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Skan
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Default  Posted: 5:24 PM, March 21st (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well then, since he's deciding to make you spend money to have him served, make sure that you send the process server where he is sure to find your STBX. Like, at his work.


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