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User Topic: when will I feel love
sick_and_sad
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Default  Posted: 12:36 AM, March 23rd (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I just ended a relationship with someone I'd been seeing for a year and a half. I should be thinking about her, either mad or sad or something. But mostly, I've been thinking about the ex, the cheater.

I guess each failed try at something with someone knew sends me back to this place of hopelessness. I wonder if I will ever again feel love like that. Or did she kill it, when she betrayed me? Will I ever be truly over it?

It's been five years. I'm sick of it, and sick of myself for still going there.


Me 50
Twin boys 16
On our own since 5/21/2009


Posts: 506 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Minneapolis
inconnu
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Default  Posted: 5:16 PM, March 23rd (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sorry you're in such a low spot right now.

It's been five years. I'm sick of it, and sick of myself for still going there.

What have you done to change things? Do you go, or have you been, to IC? Spent time figuring out you and what you want in life outside of a relationship?

Time passing helps us all heal some, but it's what we do for ourselves during that time that helps the most.


Say what you wanna say and let the words fall out...honestly
I wanna see you be brave

Pretty pretty please, don't you ever ever feel
Like you're less than, less than perfect


Posts: 12123 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: TX
norabird
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Default  Posted: 10:23 PM, March 23rd (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((Sick_and_sad)))))

I can't answer your post's question. But I hope you will love yourself as much as you can right now.

Hang in there.


Sit. Feast on your life.

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