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User Topic: Washington mudslide...brother and sil among the missing
persevere
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Default  Posted: 7:40 PM, March 25th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have been thinking about this all the time. Praying that they are okay. This is such a crazy, heartbreaking story. ((Phoenix))


Me: BW-44
Him: XWH-44
Together 9 yrs
DDays: 1/10/2011
Status: Divorced 4/27/11

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling


Posts: 4436 | Registered: Mar 2011 | From: Texas
solus sto
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Default  Posted: 7:45 PM, March 25th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh, ((((Phoenix))) Millions of prayers for you and your family.


BS-me, 52
WH (Trac-fone), 52, PD
2 kids-DD25, DS18
multiple d-days
DIVORCING
Alone, most strangely, I live on~Rupert Brooke

Posts: 8491 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: midwest
tryingagain74
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Default  Posted: 7:55 PM, March 25th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending you prayers and positive thoughts.

(((((Phoenix and family)))))


BS (Me) 39
Happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley

Posts: 3571 | Registered: Oct 2011
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 8:04 PM, March 25th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending hope and good thoughts. Keeping you and your family in my prayers.

Posts: 34433 | Registered: Mar 2011
Must Survive
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Default  Posted: 8:08 PM, March 25th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Phoenix I just saw this. I am sending prayers and good thoughts your family's way.


Me BS
WS: Just a squished bug on the window of my life!
Divorcing, STBXH is engaged/living with OW#3

They have a choice: they can live in my new world, or they can die in their old one." — Daenerys Targaryen


Posts: 703 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Must Survive
BrokenRoad
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Default  Posted: 8:29 PM, March 25th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

adding prayers from BR


{Him}FBH - 43 (WifeHad5)
{Me} FWW - 43
2 kids 7 & 12
Reconciled :)
Beauty and folly are old companions.--Benjamin Franklin

Posts: 10627 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Midwest
purplejacket4
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Default  Posted: 8:54 PM, March 25th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Praying


Me: BS 45
Her: fWS 48 (same sex partner)
Together: 18 years now (both MDs)
OW: meh so what 40s PhD
DD1: 10/30/11EA; DD2: 11/10/11 Had ONS; TT until 12/26/11; broke NC 6/12; NC again 7/12; R-ish

Posts: 2121 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: Great Southwest
lost_in_toronto
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Default  Posted: 10:52 PM, March 25th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You and your family have been in my thoughts all day.


Me: BS/39
Him: WS/37
DDay: August 23, 2009
Together 14 years.
Reconciled.

Posts: 1653 | Registered: Sep 2009 | From: not toronto anymore
thebighurt
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Default  Posted: 11:11 PM, March 25th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm seeing updates to this story in the local paper daily and always think of you and your family. ((((((((Phoenix and family))))))). The waiting and not knowing is agony, I'm sure. Hang in there.


Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?

Posts: 2224 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: the Other Side
confused615
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Default  Posted: 7:21 AM, March 26th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((((Phoenix1 and family))))))


BS(me)41
FWH 45
4 kids..21,20,11,9
M: June 2001
D-Day: 8/10/10
Status: Happily Reconciled.

..that feeling you get in your stomach, when you heart's broken. It's like all the butterflies just died.


Posts: 7253 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: Indiana
karmahappens
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Default  Posted: 8:01 AM, March 26th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You are on my mind non-stop. Praying there is a positive outcome.

Hang in there.

(((Phoenix)))


“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom”
Anaïs Nin
Me: 45
Him: 47
Dday 8/2007
We have R'd

Posts: 3791 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: Massachusetts
Phoenix1
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Default  Posted: 8:18 AM, March 26th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you everyone. They are still missing and death toll is now 24. Trying to keep a strong front for the family, but I find myself breaking down more often as soon as I am alone.


BS - Me
XPOS - too many OW/OCs over 20+yrs
Kids - DDs 22,17 -DS20 Deceased
M Dissolved 2013

This above all: to thine own self be true, and it must follow, as the night the day, thou canst not then be false to any man ~ Shakespeare, Hamlet


Posts: 1019 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Rising out of Hell's ashes!
jjct
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Default  Posted: 8:28 AM, March 26th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Phoenix1)))
Sending prayers and strength (((Phoenix1)))

Posts: 6484 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: texas
Neverwudaguessed
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Default  Posted: 10:27 AM, March 26th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh, I am so sorry to hear that you are still waiting. Pure Agony, I just cannot imagine. I have not stopped thinking about you and your family, sending the most positive thoughts your way and theirs. (((PHOENIX1)))


BW: 44 Me
WH:48
DDay1 9-9-13 (18th Wedding Anniversary) 6 wk EA, 1 wk PA
DDay2: 10-25-13 EA/PA with same OW 12 1/2 years ago for 3 months
OW: XGF Predator who never stopped pursuing WH
DS 13
DD 11

Posts: 468 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: New York
heartbroken_kk
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Default  Posted: 12:02 PM, March 26th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Phoenix))) sending you hugs and support and wishing for some hopeful news.


BW then 46, STBXWHNPDPAFTG the destroyer of my entire life.
D-Day 1 1999, D-Day 2,3,4,5,6... 2009 thru 2011.

Separated, divorcing, moving on.
I edit because I always make typos.


Posts: 1114 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: California
hexed
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Default  Posted: 12:11 PM, March 26th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((Phoenix)) I keep thinking about you and your family. Lots and lots of good thoughts for all of you.


But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler


Posts: 8434 | Registered: Apr 2008
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 12:13 PM, March 26th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Phoenix1)))


You will have bad times, but they will always wake you up to the stuff you weren't paying attention to. - Robin Williams

Posts: 16805 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
Rebreather
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Default  Posted: 12:16 PM, March 26th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Phoenix, so hard for you. Sending you strength.


Me BS
Him WH
2 ddays in '07
Recovering.
"The cure for the pain, is the pain." -Rumi

Posts: 6347 | Registered: Jan 2011
Crushed1
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Default  Posted: 1:02 PM, March 26th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((Phoenix1, family, friends))))) prayers for everyone in need.


~~"You can't run away from yourself"!!! Me to my H when he descended into adultery insanity.
~~Prov.15:13 "By sorrow of the heart the spirit is broken"
~~"The day breaks-your mind aches"
~STRENGTH~PEACE~HOPE~FAITH

Posts: 9688 | Registered: Feb 2005 | From: Texas
dreamlife
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Default  Posted: 1:10 PM, March 26th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Huge hugs!


~XWH told me what I wanted to hear but he always did whatever he wanted to do~

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