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User Topic: Washington mudslide...brother and sil among the missing
DragnHeart
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Default  Posted: 1:18 PM, March 26th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have kept the radio on listening for updates. So sad. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family!

Posts: 2792 | Registered: May 2011 | From: Canada
Undefinabl3
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Default  Posted: 1:26 PM, March 26th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have been tuning into local news rather then wait for the national news update.

My prayers to all those effected. My heart just breaks for all involved.


Me: 31 MH
Him: 37 MH
New online find 6/19/14 - shit

Posts: 1683 | Registered: Sep 2012
DeadMumWalking
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Default  Posted: 1:38 PM, March 26th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((Phoenix))))

Sending strength and positive thoughts for your brother and sil. I am hoping that they will make it through this disaster.

((((Phoenix & family))))


Me (BS), Him (WH): early 50's
3 DS: teens!!! :)
M: 24 (19 1/2 at Dday), Together 29
Dday: Dec 2008
re-separated (in-house), for good (??) <-- should really remove these, shouldn't I...

Posts: 2537 | Registered: Aug 2009 | From: EU
simplydevastated
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Default  Posted: 1:39 PM, March 26th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Continuing to keep you and your family in my thoughts. Keep us updated.

(((hugs)))


Me - BS, 39 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS10, DD7
Married, for now... (4+ D-Day - listed in profile.)

Posts: 5816 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: In the darkest depths of hell!
getnbtr1
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Default  Posted: 3:05 PM, March 26th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Waiting and hoping for good news from you ((hugs))

Posts: 93 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: CT
punky
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Default  Posted: 9:10 PM, March 26th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hoping for the best. I'm so sorry...


Be a lion, not a mowess...
The Cowardly Lion

Posts: 11294 | Registered: Oct 2006 | From: A whole 'nother country
somanyyears
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Member # 26970
Default  Posted: 9:24 PM, March 26th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


..(((((Phoenix1)))))))

..prayers sent for your family during this dark time.

..faith and hope

smy


trust no other human- love only your pets
She isn't and never was who I thought..I can't believe who I married and what she did to us.
Me 67
Her 63
Married 42 yrs (together 47)
18 yr LTA with bf


Posts: 4099 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: the sad state of affairs
LoveActually
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Default  Posted: 9:50 PM, March 26th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((Phoenix)))

My heart goes out to you and your family. Sending prayers.


BS (Me)
WS (Him)
D-Day 5/29/09
Married 11 yrs, together 16 yrs

Posts: 755 | Registered: Jan 2011
really trying
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Default  Posted: 10:40 PM, March 26th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So heartbreaking


Me: late 40's
XH: A parasite and that might be a compliment
My S-23, Our D-15
Married 5/93 D-Day: 11/18/03
Divorced 5/19/08

The future's so bright - I got to wear shades

Plant Seeds of Kindness


Posts: 10389 | Registered: Sep 2004 | From: California
NaiveAgain
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Default  Posted: 11:22 PM, March 26th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Phoenix & Family)))) Sending prayers and positive thoughts....hoping for the best for your family....


Original WS D-Day July 10, 2008. Kept lying, he is gone.
New WS (2 EA's, no PA) 12-3-13
If you don't like where you are, then change it. You are not a tree.

Posts: 15082 | Registered: Aug 2008 | From: Ohio
IrishLass518
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Default  Posted: 11:55 PM, March 26th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I truly hope for good news (((phoenix)))


Me: 45 BS Divorced
Him: 45 Married OW
DDay: 07/04/2008
Divorced: 06/15/2011
5 kids: IrishLass 27,IrishLad 25, IrishLass 22, IrishLad 21 and IrishLad 12
"You can't run from trouble..there ain't no place that far"

Posts: 1672 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: WA
Phoenix1
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Default  Posted: 3:00 AM, March 27th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Another day of no news. Spoke to my nieces today and tried to prepare them for the possibility that their parents may not be recovered. The number missing is listed at 90 with a possible additional 35 and 25 confirmed deaths, though more victims have been found but not recovered yet. My nieces are terrified because they depended on their parents for everything (they are in their early 20s). We are still hoping for a miracle as the searching continues, but it was heart wrenching talking to the girls as well as my brother's employer to discuss the next steps. I am spent...


BS - Me
XPOS - too many OW/OCs over 20+yrs
Kids - DDs 22,17 -DS20 Deceased
M Dissolved 2013

This above all: to thine own self be true, and it must follow, as the night the day, thou canst not then be false to any man ~ Shakespeare, Hamlet


Posts: 945 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Rising out of Hell's ashes!
SBB
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Default  Posted: 4:06 AM, March 27th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((Phoenix)) Please make sure you let someone support you through this too. I hope you have answers soon.

You are in my thoughts.


Buzz- The word you are searching for is 'Space-Ranger.'
Woody- The word I'm searching for, I can't say, because there are Pre-school toys here.

Posts: 5383 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 6:04 AM, March 27th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Phoenix)))


Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."


Posts: 36501 | Registered: Sep 2007
SisterMilkshake
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Default  Posted: 7:34 AM, March 27th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((Phoenix, nieces, and whole family)))) Take care of yourself.


BW (me) 50ish FWH 50ish
Married 34 years, 3 children
d-day 3/10 LTA (4 yrs./fucking & flirting)

"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak!" ~ Homer Simpson


Posts: 9400 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: The Great White North USA
suckstobeme
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Default  Posted: 7:56 AM, March 27th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((((((Phoenix))))))))))

Prayers and thoughts are with you and your whole family.


BW - me
ExWH - "that one"
D - 2011
You get what you put in, and people get what they deserve.
Hard as it may be, try to never give the OP any of your power or head space.

Posts: 2689 | Registered: Jan 2011
Kajem
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Default  Posted: 8:22 AM, March 27th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Phoenix, I'm holding you and your family in my prayers.

Hugs,
K


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 4817 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
yearsofpain25
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Member # 42012
Default  Posted: 8:32 AM, March 27th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((((((((Phoenix and family))))))))))


25 years and counting of pain caused by mother's infidelity. Aftermath: 1 deceased sibling, 1 lost family, 3 lost souls.
"Each new day I am just glad to be alive and have survived all that I did." Ashland13

Posts: 1795 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: Northeast US
Undefinabl3
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Default  Posted: 8:44 AM, March 27th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

O blessed St. Anthony,
the grace of God has made you a powerful advocate
in all our needs and the patron
for the restoring of things lost or stolen.
I turn to you today with childlike love and deep confidence.
You have helped countless children of God
to find the things they have lost,
material things, and, more importantly,
the things of the spirit: faith, hope, and love.
I come to you with confidence;
help me in my present need.
I recommend what I have lost to your care,
in the hope that God will restore it to me,
if it is His holy Will.


Me: 31 MH
Him: 37 MH
New online find 6/19/14 - shit

Posts: 1683 | Registered: Sep 2012
Faithful w/Love
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Member # 33128
Default  Posted: 9:05 AM, March 27th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You are in my thoughts and prayers! This has to be horrible for you and your family. I wish I could come and give you a IRL hug.

((((((((Phoenix and Family))))))))

Lord,
Please heal this family with your love and comfort, hold close your children in their time of need. Please bring their family members back to them and let no harm be done. Let them feel your embrace and send your angels to protect all of them. We know your mercy and love. Phoenix and family are waiting patiently to hear word of family, Lord, please let them hear word soon so that the family can be as one again. In your name, Jesus Christ. Amen.


BS(ME)40 WH(HIM)37
DD 19 and DS 15
Separated Aug 2012
Moved back home Oct 31 2013
False R. Still Lying.
Will be divorcing soon!
"You never know how strong you are until being strong is the only choice you have"!

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