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User Topic: Washington mudslide...brother and sil among the missing
trustagain
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Default  Posted: 11:20 AM, March 27th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I continue to pray for you and your family.


WH - 48
BS (me) - 50
Son - 25
Son - 17
Dday #1 - 10/31/07
Dday #2 - 12/23/07
Dday #1,000,000 - 12/23/09 - found out EA was PA
Reconciling or at least trying. We have reconciled through the A, but he still doesn't get it when it comes to p

Posts: 4472 | Registered: Nov 2007
hexed
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Default  Posted: 11:23 AM, March 27th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((phoenix)))

much love and good thoughts going out to all of you today. i keep watching the local news and wondering about you.


But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler


Posts: 8459 | Registered: Apr 2008
GabyBaby
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Default  Posted: 11:42 AM, March 27th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((( Phoenix and family )))


Me - 42
SorryInSac (WH#2) - 47. DDay 7/12/14
Married 4, together 7yrs total
Status - Stick a fork in me...

DD(21), DS(18, PDD-NOS)
6 Furkids - 4 dogs, 2 cats

WXH (serial cheater, 12+ OW) - Legally married 18yrs

I edit often for clarity.


Posts: 6521 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: California
confused615
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Member # 30826
Default  Posted: 12:26 PM, March 27th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Continued prayers.


BS(me)42
FWH 45
4 kids
M: June 2001
D-Day: 8/10/10
Status: Reconciling?

..that feeling you get in your stomach, when you heart's broken. It's like all the butterflies just died.


Posts: 7674 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: Indiana
lordhasaplan?
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Member # 30079
Default  Posted: 1:22 PM, March 27th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Stay Strong! Those girls will need anyone they have to love and support them. Please turn here when you need a boost. We are all praying and sending strength.


D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
No life should be passively relinquished due to the toxicity of others and taking steps to protect yourself may very well be the most important steps you will ever take.

Posts: 1908 | Registered: Nov 2010
Rebreather
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Default  Posted: 2:44 PM, March 27th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Phoenix, I wish I had words for you to make this easier. But know you have this invisible army behind you, holding you up. Hang in there.


Me BS
Him WH
2 ddays in '07
Recovering.
"The cure for the pain, is the pain." -Rumi

Posts: 6546 | Registered: Jan 2011
still2suspicious
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Default  Posted: 3:17 PM, March 27th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending prayers to you and your family.

I have friends in that area.

If you need ANYTHING please let me know. I live just a hop, skip and jump from there. OK, maybe not that close, but close enough to be there quickly.

(((phoenix)))


Me: BS
Him: WH
DDay: LTEA

Posts: 1299 | Registered: Apr 2011 | From:
areyoukidding
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Default  Posted: 6:12 PM, March 27th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending you strength and love. (((Phoenix1)))


BS (me) : 53 Freshly divorced and so very happy. To infinity and beyond!!


Trying to understand the behaviour of some people is like trying to smell the number 9.


Posts: 626 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Canada
norabird
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Default  Posted: 10:46 PM, March 27th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so sorry for you, your nieces and family. (((((Peace and strength))))))


Sit. Feast on your life.

Posts: 4196 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: NYC
wannabenormal
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Default  Posted: 11:23 PM, March 27th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You're in my prayers. I'm so, so sorry.



Posts: 14389 | Registered: Jun 2008
newbeg2011
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Default  Posted: 12:52 AM, March 28th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Phoenix)))
0115 and I are praying for you all..


Never forget what I have done to BS but don't let guilt make me quit. STAY IN THE FIGHT ! ! !
WS 47 me
BS 47 her
5 Great Children
DD 1/15/11

Posts: 213 | Registered: Apr 2011
BAB61
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Default  Posted: 1:15 AM, March 28th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((Phoenix & family)) praying for all affected by this disaster..... hope you hear soon.


Boss A** B*tch
BS/52 Me, STBXpos/56, dd's 16&14
1st D-day 10/19/2013 EA/PA
2nd D-day 12/7/2013 LTA/Rendezvous
S 12/7/2013 No-fault state, 6 mo S, counting down the days.

Posts: 1271 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: DE
ray-ray
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Default  Posted: 3:17 AM, March 28th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Phoenix and family)))


So many roads

Posts: 725 | Registered: Oct 2010
SweetheartVixen
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Default  Posted: 10:35 AM, March 28th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((Phoenix & Family))))

I was so sad reading this. I am so sorry. Prayers.


BS/60s WS/60s Divorcing and not soon enough~!
Its nice to be important, but its more important to be nice...

DD 6-14


Posts: 3099 | Registered: Jul 2004 | From: somewhere over the rainbow
yearsofpain25
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Default  Posted: 10:46 AM, March 28th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Phoenix and family))) continued thoughts and prayers


25 years and counting of pain caused by mother's infidelity. Aftermath: 1 deceased sibling, 1 lost family, 3 lost souls.
"Each new day I am just glad to be alive and have survived all that I did." Ashland13

Posts: 2184 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: Northeast US
Kajem
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Default  Posted: 11:08 AM, March 28th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Keeping you and your family close in prayer today.


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 5259 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
rachelc
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Default  Posted: 11:14 AM, March 28th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((Phoenix))


his Dday: 2/10 but TT until 7/11
my Ddays: 1/12, 4/12 broken NC 12/12

me (WW/BS): 48
him: (BS/WH)52
4 kiddos in mid 20's

The conditions we face do not define us. They remind us of who we are and who we want to be.


Posts: 5248 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Midwest
Phoenix1
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Default  Posted: 1:28 PM, March 28th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Still no news. Though we are still hopeful, and will continue to pray for a miracle, the reality is that they are probably lost to us. While the recovery of their bodies would offer the physical closure, in my heart I hope they don't find them now. That may sound harsh, but I know my brother well. Where he died was his personal paradise. He designed the home and built it with his own hands. He was going to retire there in a few short years. He went there every weekend he was not traveling somewhere in the world. That was his home, and where his heart is. To make that his final resting place would make him very happy, not some cold, unfamiliar cemetery. This is would be very fitting and would remove the uncertainty of what to do from my nieces. I can take comfort in that should it end that way. However, they are still recovering victims that need to be identified so we will have to wait and see. Such a tremendous loss for so many.


BS - Me
XPOS - too many OW/OCs over 20+yrs
Kids - DDs 23,18 -DS20 Deceased
M Dissolved 2013

This above all: to thine own self be true, and it must follow, as the night the day, thou canst not then be false to any man ~ Shakespeare, Hamlet


Posts: 1184 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Rising out of Hell's ashes!
simplydevastated
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Default  Posted: 1:35 PM, March 28th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so sorry you and your family, and the others affected, are going through all this. I can't even imagine what you all are going through.

Sending my continued (((hugs))) and support.


Me - BS, 39 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS10, DD7
Married, for now... (4+ D-Day - listed in profile.)

Posts: 5854 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: In the darkest depths of hell!
lordhasaplan?
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Default  Posted: 1:39 PM, March 28th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

wish I could give you a real hug! but here is a virtual one (((((Phoenix)))))


D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10).
No life should be passively relinquished due to the toxicity of others and taking steps to protect yourself may very well be the most important steps you will ever take.

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