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User Topic: Washington mudslide...brother and sil among the missing
ThoughtIKnewYa
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Default  Posted: 1:55 PM, March 28th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Phoenix)))

Posts: 11671 | Registered: Mar 2008
Tred
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Default  Posted: 1:58 PM, March 28th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Phoenix)))


Married: 17 years (14 @JFO)
D-Day: 11/09/11
"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)

Posts: 3929 | Registered: Dec 2011
karmahappens
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Default  Posted: 2:02 PM, March 28th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You are so strong.

Prayers continue for you and yours.


“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom”
Anaïs Nin
Me: 45
Him: 47
Dday 8/2007
We have R'd

Posts: 3800 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: Massachusetts
stroppy_wanadoo
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Default  Posted: 2:53 PM, March 28th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My heart hurts for you and your family. I admire your strength and send you much love and patience as you tackle these tough days.

(((Phoenix and family)))

Peace to you.


Posts: 1033 | Registered: Jul 2006
Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 3:27 PM, March 28th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((PHOENIX)))


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9672 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
LA44
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Default  Posted: 3:30 PM, March 28th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

More hugs (((Phoenix and family))


Me: 44
He: 47 WH
Married: 15 years
D Day: December 2012
Affair: Fall 2009 - Dec. 2011
R is not linear

Posts: 2287 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Canada, eh
Kelany
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Default  Posted: 3:41 PM, March 28th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Phoenix)))


BS - Me
SA/FWH Him
DDay 1 - Jul 11
DDay 2 - Jul 12
R Dec 12

Former 80s Icon wishful thinking


Posts: 2031 | Registered: Feb 2012
cass
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Default  Posted: 3:48 PM, March 28th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((Phoenix and family)))))


DDay - April 2008
Me - 54 and doing great. Found myself again and loving life
Him - who??

I can see clearly now, the rain is gone (Johnny Nash)

Those who stir the shit soup get to lick the spoon!


Posts: 4965 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: UK
HFSSC
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Default  Posted: 6:23 PM, March 28th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My prayers are with you and your family. This has got to be so unimaginably tough.


Me, 47
Him, 40 (JMSSC)
married 17 years. In R. We are making it. The past does not define who we are today.

Posts: 2734 | Registered: Sep 2011 | From: South Carolina
AgainandAgain
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Default  Posted: 9:25 PM, March 28th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I just want you to know I've been thinking of you and your family since you posted this. I wanted you to know that you are in my constant prayers and thoughts.

((((((((((Phoenix1))))))))))))


Posts: 231 | Registered: Feb 2012
LosferWords
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Default  Posted: 9:45 PM, March 28th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Phoenix)))

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jadedheart
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Default  Posted: 9:58 PM, March 28th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

praying for you and your family. This is just heartbreaking for all that are suffering!


Me 45
FWH 47
DS11, DD18, DS21(they know nothing about A)
Married 23 years together 25
Dday 09/24/2010
"You can't control how others behave, you can only control your reaction."

Posts: 980 | Registered: May 2011 | From: Indiana
gonnabe2016
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Default  Posted: 12:41 AM, March 29th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Mother Nature can be a bitch. I've seen reports that say that all victims of this tragedy may not be recovered due to the nature of this particular disaster.

I am so, so sorry for you, your nieces, and your entire family.


"Oh, what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." - Sir Walter Scott

In my effort to be *concise*, I often come off as blunt and harsh. Sorry, don't mean to be offensive.


Posts: 8005 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: Midwest
gypsybird87
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Default  Posted: 1:07 AM, March 29th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((phoenix)))

So terrible.... sending hugs and prayers for you and your family.


Me: Enjoying life
Him: Someone else's problem

Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one's courage. ~ Anais Nin


Posts: 823 | Registered: May 2013 | From: Oregon
woundedby2
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Default  Posted: 1:32 AM, March 29th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Phoenix and family)))

Praying for a miracle along with you.


Me: BS
2 kids: DD15 and DS18
Him: The Assclown NPD
OW: "friend" of 15 years
Divorced! Feb. 2010

Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson


Posts: 7813 | Registered: Mar 2008 | From: SoCal
Phoenix1
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Default  Posted: 3:00 AM, March 29th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am truly at my end. Also just found out my aunt passed away on Sunday and my great aunt on Monday.

Both my niece's true colors are showing as they are trying to gain access to my brother's money before they have even been declared deceased. I have frozen their accounts, but it sickens me and breaks my heart for my brother.

This has been the week from hell and I am just done.


BS - Me
XPOS - too many OW/OCs over 20+yrs
Kids - DDs 22,17 -DS20 Deceased
M Dissolved 2013

This above all: to thine own self be true, and it must follow, as the night the day, thou canst not then be false to any man ~ Shakespeare, Hamlet


Posts: 1107 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Rising out of Hell's ashes!
refuz2bavictim
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Default  Posted: 3:45 AM, March 29th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((Phoenix1))
I am so sorry for all that you are going through right now.


BS:ME DDay: 7/18/09 Last of TT 7/11/10
MOW's EA/PA all were my "friends" but one


Posts: 2372 | Registered: Jan 2010
risingfromashes
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Default  Posted: 6:17 AM, March 29th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((Phoenix))))


There is life on the other side of hell.

Posts: 1634 | Registered: Mar 2004
jjct
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Default  Posted: 6:38 AM, March 29th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

hugs Phoenix...sending strength and prayers. So sorry.

Posts: 6581 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: texas
Ellejay
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Default  Posted: 6:46 AM, March 29th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Phoenix)))

I am so sorry. Prayers from Australia are coming your way. May you find the strength to get through this.


Ellejay


Married 25 years now divorced.
D-Day: 20/11/10
Me: 48.5 plus 10% GST
Him: mental age 6 (apologies to all 6 year olds)
Betrayal: Who cares anymore?

Posts: 1094 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Adelaide, South Australia
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