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User Topic: Washington mudslide...brother and sil among the missing
Phoenix1
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Default  Posted: 11:09 PM, March 24th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

14 bodies recovered so far. The medical examiner is asking for pics and dental records.


BS - Me
XPOS - too many OW/OCs over 20+yrs
Kids - DDs 23,18 -DS20 Deceased
M Dissolved 2013

This above all: to thine own self be true, and it must follow, as the night the day, thou canst not then be false to any man ~ Shakespeare, Hamlet


Posts: 1206 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Rising out of Hell's ashes!
woundedby2
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Default  Posted: 11:11 PM, March 24th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Continued prayers. (((Phoenix)))


Me: BS
2 kids: DD15 and DS18
Him: The Assclown NPD
OW: "friend" of 15 years
Divorced! Feb. 2010

Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson


Posts: 7827 | Registered: Mar 2008 | From: SoCal
Kajem
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Default  Posted: 11:42 PM, March 24th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Keeping you and your family members in my prayers.


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 5327 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
Lyonesse
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Default  Posted: 11:48 PM, March 24th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Adding my prayers...


Me: BS, 40's.

Posts: 1797 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: West Coast
InnerLight
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Default  Posted: 11:57 PM, March 24th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((((Phoenix and family)))))))


BS, age 53, d-day 6-2-08, divorced after 17 years and 20 together. Now I am living alone in the beautiful rural property that was once the dream retreat with X. It's taking a long time to create new dreams but despite some struggles I am mostly happy.

Posts: 5871 | Registered: Jun 2008 | From: Rural California
TooAloof
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Default  Posted: 12:44 AM, March 25th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so sorry Phoenix. I live out here too, and have been watching the coverage. It must be agony for you.
Prayers to you and your family.


The cure for anything is Salt Water; Sweat, Tears and the Sea
Isak Dinesen

Posts: 749 | Registered: Nov 2006 | From: PNW
Unagie
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Default  Posted: 3:37 AM, March 25th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My thoughts and prayers are you and yours.


Heartbroken madhatter trying to rebuild

No longer together

"To be loyal to myself is to allow myself to grow and change, and challenge who I am and what I think."


Posts: 2767 | Registered: Oct 2012
karmahappens
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Default  Posted: 6:05 AM, March 25th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am holding you and your family in my prayers.

I cannot imagine your worry and pain right now and I struggle for the right words to help you.

Although I know those words don't exist.

(((Phoenix))) please lean on us.


“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom”
Anaïs Nin
Me: 45
Him: 47
Dday 8/2007
We have R'd

Posts: 3850 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: Massachusetts
sadcat
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Default  Posted: 6:13 AM, March 25th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((phoenix and family)))

Holding you in my thoughts.


I need not suffer in silence while I can still moan, whimper and complain.

If this isn't what I consider soulmate crap, I don't know what is.


Posts: 13260 | Registered: Oct 2005 | From: GA
lynnm1947
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Default  Posted: 7:51 AM, March 25th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((phoenix and family)))))

Hoping for a positive outcome for you. Take care.


Age: 64..ummmmmmm, no...............65....no...oh, hell born in 1947. You figure it out!

"I could have missed the pain, but I would have had to miss the dance." Garth Brooks


Posts: 7305 | Registered: Jul 2007 | From: Toronto, Canada
Undefinabl3
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Default  Posted: 8:17 AM, March 25th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Phoenix1 I just wanted to say how deeply sorry I am for all that is going on.

Your family is in our thoughts and prayers.


Me: 31 MH
Him: 37 MH
New online find 6/19/14 - shit

Posts: 1767 | Registered: Sep 2012
EvenKeel
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Default  Posted: 10:58 AM, March 25th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Geez - just checking back in today to see if you heard anything. You were on my mind all evening. Prayers & Hugs!!!!


Eyes are useless if the mind is blind.


Posts: 2185 | Registered: May 2009 | From: Pa
weeping willow
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Default  Posted: 12:14 PM, March 25th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm praying.

(((Phoenix & family)))


BW - me FWH - him
D Day - July 26, 2007
Married 36 years


Posts: 1793 | Registered: Feb 2009
neverdidithink
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Default  Posted: 1:03 PM, March 25th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((((((((Phoenix1)))))))))) My prayers are with you and your family.


Me: BW 52
Him: WH 55
Married 8 years
4 20-something his and hers kids

Trying to understand the behavior of some people is like trying to smell the color 9


Posts: 341 | Registered: Sep 2013
LA44
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Default  Posted: 1:14 PM, March 25th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Been thinking of you and yours today, Phoenix.


Me: 44
He: 47 WH
Married: 15 years
D Day: December 2012
Affair: Fall 2009 - Dec. 2011
R is not linear

Posts: 2482 | Registered: Feb 2013 | From: Canada, eh
circe
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Default  Posted: 1:21 PM, March 25th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh no. I'm thinking of you and your family Phoenix1.

Posts: 3197 | Registered: Mar 2005
sadtoo
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Default  Posted: 1:39 PM, March 25th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((Phoenix1))))
Praying for a positive outcome.


It is what it is, not what we hope it can be.

When another woman takes your husband,
sometimes the best thing you can do for
yourself is to LET HER HAVE the worthless
bum.
OC born 2001
Divorced 2003
Remarried 2008 (New Guy)


Posts: 8033 | Registered: Aug 2003 | From: Iowa
Phoenix1
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Default  Posted: 6:33 PM, March 25th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The telltale green roof of my brother's house has been spotted in the Sheriff's Office aerial footage sticking partially out of the mud. Emergency response were notified and they are sending a helicopter to the area. The hope is that if it IS his house, maybe there are air pockets and they made it there... we continue to hold on to hope that a miracle will occur.

I am trying to keep it together for my father, my kids, and my two nieces (my brother's adult girls), but it is becoming more and more difficult...


BS - Me
XPOS - too many OW/OCs over 20+yrs
Kids - DDs 23,18 -DS20 Deceased
M Dissolved 2013

This above all: to thine own self be true, and it must follow, as the night the day, thou canst not then be false to any man ~ Shakespeare, Hamlet


Posts: 1206 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Rising out of Hell's ashes!
hexed
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Default  Posted: 6:36 PM, March 25th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((phoenix)) I am so sorry there hasn't been good news. praying for an airpocket and any other miracle that will help.


But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler


Posts: 8462 | Registered: Apr 2008
weeping willow
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Default  Posted: 7:13 PM, March 25th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Phoenix, my heart goes out to you and your family. I will continue to pray for a miracle and that your brother and SIL will be found safe and sound.

(((Phoenix, father, kids and nieces)))


BW - me FWH - him
D Day - July 26, 2007
Married 36 years


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