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DTERMINED2SURVIV
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Default  Posted: 3:45 PM, March 24th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

If you had one hour left on this earth, What would you say to your FWS/BS?

Edit to add BS so fws may respond!

[This message edited by DTERMINED2SURVIV at 5:00 PM, March 24th (Monday)]




Posts: 270 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: Where theres lots of southern HOEspitality
Wodnships
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Default  Posted: 3:51 PM, March 24th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

If I had one hour left I'm not sure what I would say, but I can tell you the affair would be the last thing I wanted to talk about.


me: BH 35
Her: WW 28

Married 4 years. Dating 8. Living together 7.

If a man took his time on earth
to prove be for he died
what on man's life could be worth
I wonder what would happen to the world

- Harry Chapin


Posts: 483 | Registered: Mar 2014 | From: California
GabyBaby
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Default  Posted: 3:56 PM, March 24th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

If I had one hour left, my XWH would be the last person on a long list of people to whom I would want to speak.


Me - 40s
SorryInSac - WH#2 - 40s. DDay 7/12/14
Married 4, together 7yrs total
Status - ??

DD(21), DS(18, PDD-NOS)
6 Furkids - 4 dogs, 2 cats

WXH (serial cheater, 12+ OW)
Legally married 18yrs, together 16.5yrs

I edit often for clarity.


Posts: 6440 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: California
Merlin
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Default  Posted: 3:56 PM, March 24th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I wouldn't waste a single second on her.


"I never saw a wild thing sorry for itself. A bird will fall frozen dead from a bough without ever having felt sorry for itself." D. H. Lawrence

Her: WW/57 Me: BS/63 24yrs M
3 great kids, now 22, 20, 17 b,b,g
D-Day 8/14/08, D 1/13/11


Posts: 1164 | Registered: Nov 2010 | From: East Coast
Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 4:04 PM, March 24th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I would not waste a single second of my life on him at all. He doesn't deserve my thoughts or any part of me. Not one thought, not one word, not even a glance.


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9657 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
Skan
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Default  Posted: 4:23 PM, March 24th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Get your ass in the car and meet me at the shore, so we can watch the earth end together.


Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012



Posts: 4802 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California
ajsmom
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Default  Posted: 4:26 PM, March 24th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My son would get every second of my last hour.


AJ's MOM


Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.

"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
____________________________________________
Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
DS - 31 - Yikes!


Posts: 21050 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: Been Through Hell...On My Way Back
Brandon808
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Default  Posted: 4:30 PM, March 24th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you for my step-daughter. Being part of her life was/is a blessing. Can't regret that.


xBH
D final 8/2012

Posts: 3798 | Registered: May 2012 | From: southeast
rachelc
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Default  Posted: 4:49 PM, March 24th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

"you are a good man. I'm so sorry."


his Ddays: 2/10, 7/11
my Ddays: 1/12, 4/12 broken NC 12/12

me (WW/BS): 48
him: (BS/WH)52
4 kiddos in mid 20's

Me: I didn't sign up for this.
Him: you're already in this. All you can do is resign...


Posts: 4914 | Registered: Dec 2010
gypsybird87
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Default  Posted: 4:55 PM, March 24th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I would not spend one moment of my last hour on XWH. I already wasted enough of my life on him.


Me: Enjoying life
Him: Someone else's problem

Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one's courage. ~ Anais Nin


Posts: 817 | Registered: May 2013 | From: Oregon
Garnet
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Default  Posted: 5:07 PM, March 24th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Last hour......... Would beat the life out of skank whore for 20 minutes then spend the rest with my 3 kids!!!!! Oh that felt good !!! Thanks for the thread!!!


Garnet☀

Posts: 84 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: MA
solus sto
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Default  Posted: 5:21 PM, March 24th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Not a thing. There are many things I'd want to fit into that hour, and speaking with him does not even come close to making the list.

Seriously, if I had a month, I'm not sure he'd make the cut.


BS-me, 52
WH (Trac-fone), 52, PD
2 kids-DD25, DS18
multiple d-days
DIVORCING
Alone, most strangely, I live on~Rupert Brooke

Posts: 8682 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: midwest
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 5:28 PM, March 24th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

If it were just my hour and the Earth would be intact after I was gone?

I'd be leaving exactly 59 minutes of details on how to take care of DD and how I hope she would be raised. 1 minute for ILY's and a promise to go find his mom on the other side.

If it's the end of the world, I think Crazz would be on board to make it the best damned hour of DD's life.

[This message edited by Jrazz at 5:28 PM, March 24th (Monday)]


I bow to those who keep their hearts open when it is most difficult, those who refuse to keep their armor on any longer than they have to, those who recognize the courage at the heart of vulnerability. - Jeff Brown

Posts: 17306 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
Embers2Fire
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Default  Posted: 5:42 PM, March 24th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Your not an evil man your just a flawed man who made mistakes you could not undo. Forgive yourself because I have and so has God, I really did survive, I am really ok now, so you really need to move on. Thank you for my sons they are the very best thing in my life. I would kiss him on the cheek then I would walk away hand in hand with my new husband and my awesome sons and leave this earth with their faces as the last earthly image I beheld.


BS - me 49
XWH - him 48
DDay 05/08
Married 25 yrs, 2 sons 28/23
Divorced
2nd Marriage 11/1/13 livng the dream
Thanks to you I'm finally thinking about me, you know in the end the day you left was really my begnning - Kelly Clarkson

Posts: 415 | Registered: Sep 2009 | From: Memphis, TN
justinpaintoday
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Default  Posted: 5:53 PM, March 24th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Seriously, if I had a month, I'm not sure he'd make the cut

Thats funny


I never realized you could be in this much pain and not be dying.

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Credence
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Default  Posted: 5:53 PM, March 24th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm going out for an hour


If you keep doing what you've always done, you'll keep getting what you always got

Posts: 183 | Registered: Mar 2014 | From: UK
CheshCat
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Default  Posted: 5:58 PM, March 24th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Nothing. :D

There is no way on earth I'd spend my last hour on earth having anything to do with him. Especially not wasting any time thinking & or talking to him.

I'd rather think about the people in my life that I actually love, and about all the joy Obe been so fortunate to experience. From roller skating & lemonade stands as a kid, to besties & adventures, to kissing my own kids goodnight, and snuggling up with my teens watching movies.

I'd probably reminisce over a colonoscopy before I spent any time reminiscing over my ex.

He's just not on my bucket list.

>^..^<


"Another conversation killed awkwardly! Yes! Point to my side." - Chesh's Brother

Moi : BS MH 30mumble
Him : WS Abuse Adultery Addict Six-figure Sociopath = Aaass
... I picked a winner!
DDay - 2006 ad naseam
Divorced! 2013


Posts: 571 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: West Coast US
Ostrich80
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Default  Posted: 6:04 PM, March 24th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My kids,my granddaughter, my.parents, and my sisters would get my time...him I would prob ask him to get his shit straight for his own good and for his children's..that would take about 2 min and that's all he would get.


BS..me
WS..him
Been with him over half my life
4kid
DD1 10-01-09 DD2 02-12-12 discovered it never ended
OW..nothing special. Just your average skank
Status..#$%@????

Posts: 5028 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: midwest
Howie
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Default  Posted: 7:00 PM, March 24th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am afraid that part of that last hour I'd still be asking "Why?" I've done every conceivable work on that question and I will go to my grave and still never understand in my heart "why". Why did you so lightly, cheerfully and utterly betray me?

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msmaggiemags
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Default  Posted: 7:29 PM, March 24th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My kids and I would spend every single minute of it together talking about how they need to take care of each other, and about how they are both blessings in my life and how much I love them. WH umm..nope, no time for that.


Me 42
Wh 36
Ds 11
Dd 7
Dday 6/19/2005, LTA and Oral pleasures, dday#2 Jan/2011 EA, dday #3 Nov/2013 pornographic pics of "friends"
I think this is finally R...

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