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User Topic: He "met someone"...
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Default  Posted: 2:54 PM, March 26th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I understand. In many ways it seems much easier when someone poofs on you. I have nothing holding me back.

With those details, I do not think it is wise of him to date at this point.

BH - no longer 48
3 DD's - (27, 24 and 17)
Divorced on 8/6/09

Posts: 9188 | Registered: Dec 2006 | From: Eastern Washington
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Default  Posted: 6:28 PM, March 27th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hmm sounds like he sent some mixed messages..which can't help matters.


I agree that everyone heals differently and at different rates AND that you have a right to your feelings.

Work through it, breathe, and remember that you can survive this.

I need not suffer in silence while I can still moan, whimper and complain.

If this isn't what I consider soulmate crap, I don't know what is.

Posts: 13259 | Registered: Oct 2005 | From: GA
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Default  Posted: 5:10 AM, March 28th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm sorry you are hurting with this news.

He did send mixed messages lately, didn't he? Not necessarily that you were getting back together one day, but that he was building a friendship with you perhaps.

I'm sure those "I met someone" words are ringing in your ears.

When you are ready, your turn will come. I'm proud of you for blocking him on FB. I think it's silly for adults to flaunt new relationships on there.

Take care of yourself. Keep moving forward. The best is yet to come!

Posts: 530 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: east coast
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Default  Posted: 10:48 AM, March 28th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm glad you know that you are entitled to your feelings luvbug. It can be easy to beat ourselves up for our reactions. Hurt from this, and then heal from it. You will be okay.

Sit. Feast on your life.

Posts: 4196 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: NYC
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Default  Posted: 12:26 PM, March 28th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I know I will survive this, I know these feelings are just temporary.

I had a chat with a close girlfriend the other day, the one I spent a week with last month. She has this amazing ability to say exactly what I need to hear, whatever the situation, whether I like what she has to say or not.

Tonight I'm going to have some "girl time" with another close friend to work out any residual feelings of self pity and then I'm going to let this mother effer go and never look back.

"I haven't stopped looking for the good in people. I've just accepted the fact that I'm not always going to find it."-Patti LaBelle

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