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Leia
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Default  Posted: 9:08 AM, March 27th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Court is at 4 this afternoon, and I'm, frankly, a basket case right now. STBXWH is downstairs cleaning. I hear him rattling things. I can't work up the nerve to care, or go down to his stupid music. Where did my life go so askew that it is now in the hands of some judge that I don't even know???

Argh. I don't know how I'm going to make it through the day. I know by the time court rolls around, I'm going to have my bitch boots on, and I've promised myself to not get rattled, or drawn into conversations without my L present at the court house. I've read the other threads concerning L's, conversations in the hallways, etc. Not going there.

Thanks for listening. It does help to type this out.


"Somebody get this walking carpet out of my way." Princess Leia, Star Wars

Posts: 296 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: Kansas
Leia
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Default  Posted: 9:09 AM, March 27th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

...and I just got another rejection letter from a job.


"Somebody get this walking carpet out of my way." Princess Leia, Star Wars

Posts: 296 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: Kansas
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Default  Posted: 9:13 AM, March 27th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You are Strong, you are a woman of strength! We will be with you there in spirit. Go look in the mirror and look at the wonderful woman looking back! You did not do this, you were everything you were suppose to be and God knows that and see that.

You will be okay, and I can understand what you may be feeling. Remember - You are strong and you are done taking shit from someone who treated you horribly.

(((((LEIA)))))


BS(ME)40 WH(HIM)38
DD 19 and DS 15
Separated Aug 2012
Moved back home Oct 31 2013
False R. Still Lying.
Will be divorcing soon!
"You never know how strong you are until being strong is the only choice you have"!

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hexed
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Default  Posted: 9:14 AM, March 27th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((Leia))

Some days just suck. No matter how court goes today, it was going to be a tough day. You will come out the other side of this OK.

Just ignore STBX today. Focus on you and getting what you need.


But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler


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norabird
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Default  Posted: 10:15 AM, March 27th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((Leia))))

Good luck in court today and don't be too discouraged on the job front. I can't even say how many jobs I haven't gotten after interviewing/applying...literally dozens. Something that is right for you WILL come along.


Sit. Feast on your life.

Posts: 3734 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: NYC
one2ndchance
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Default  Posted: 11:14 AM, March 27th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My son in law once walked into an office and asked if he could work there for no pay. He said if they were pleased with his work at the end of two weeks, would they consider offering him a position. They said yes and 2 weeks later he was hired. Four years later he became VP of marketing.

We once had a young woman come into our office asking if she could be a volunteer intern in our office and possibly help with stocking supplies and other menial things. She only came in once a week, but within 2 months, she was offered a part time job. After a year, she was offered a management position at a satellite office.

These are desperate measures, but they can work. It shows employers you have initiative and motivation.

Good luck with court today.


Me: BW 59
Him: STBXWH 61
Married: 25 years
DDay1: 2/2002; DDay2: 6/2012
Gave him his second chance and he blew it.
Divorcing

Posts: 479 | Registered: May 2007 | From: California
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 1:10 PM, March 27th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Leia)))

Sending you strength. Remember when you walk into court, we are all there with you.


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Leia
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Default  Posted: 9:14 PM, March 27th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you everyone. I get to move and take the furniture that I have inherited with me. The temporary custody went through and I can live with it.

Now, on to my moving project and then job hunting full time.


"Somebody get this walking carpet out of my way." Princess Leia, Star Wars

Posts: 296 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: Kansas
norabird
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Default  Posted: 11:05 PM, March 27th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm glad it's over with and that the result seems good! Sending you job and apartment search mojo....


Sit. Feast on your life.

Posts: 3734 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: NYC
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