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nekorb
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Default  Posted: 10:57 PM, March 31st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My daughter attempted suicide again today. She is hospitalized at the moment and medically clear. She was planning to jump from a bridge. The police picked her up on the off ramp going up to the bridge.

Please pray or whatever it is you do, for her and for our family.


Me: BS 44
Him: WH 47 aka CAT- colossal asshat
Married 22 years
D-day: July 17, 2013, with TT to follow
Heading for Divorce
3 kids: 15,17,19

Psalms 27:14
Wait for The Lord; be strong and take heart, wait for The Lord.


Posts: 1697 | Registered: Aug 2013
rainagain
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Default  Posted: 10:59 PM, March 31st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am and my heart is with you Nekorb.


Now, faith is being sure of what you hope for and certain of what you cannot see. Heb 11:1
I done been through the pain and the sorrow the struggle is nothing but love. Maino
Me: Divorced BS 49
DS22, DD19, DS17

Posts: 1290 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Massachusetts
Chrysalis123
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Default  Posted: 11:03 PM, March 31st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am holding all of you in my prayers.


Dont get to the end of your life and find that you lived only the length of it; live the width of it as well.

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ArkLaMiss
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Default  Posted: 11:06 PM, March 31st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Prayers that angels keep her safe! So glad she's safe!


Just HOW stupid do you think I am, exactly?

Posts: 1164 | Registered: Jun 2007
purplejacket4
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Default  Posted: 11:19 PM, March 31st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

She's in a mental health unit?

Praying that she'll do well.


Me: BS 45
Her: fWS 48 (same sex partner)
Together: 18 years now (both MDs)
OW: meh so what 40s PhD
DD1: 10/30/11EA; DD2: 11/10/11 Had ONS; TT until 12/26/11; broke NC 6/12; NC again 7/12; R-ish

Posts: 2079 | Registered: Dec 2011 | From: Great Southwest
nekorb
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Default  Posted: 11:26 PM, March 31st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

She's in a mental health unit?

Yes. Pediatric inpatient acute psych unit. We need to ask if a long term placement might be appropriate. Ugh. I hate the thought of it.

Thank you all.

[This message edited by nekorb at 11:26 PM, March 31st (Monday)]


Me: BS 44
Him: WH 47 aka CAT- colossal asshat
Married 22 years
D-day: July 17, 2013, with TT to follow
Heading for Divorce
3 kids: 15,17,19

Psalms 27:14
Wait for The Lord; be strong and take heart, wait for The Lord.


Posts: 1697 | Registered: Aug 2013
HFSSC
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Default  Posted: 11:57 PM, March 31st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh, nekorb, I am so sorry. This makes me even angrier and sadder at the situation you are in. I am lifting you and your precious dd up in prayer.


Me, 47
Him, 40 (JMSSC)
married 17 years. In R. We are making it. The past does not define who we are today.

Posts: 2659 | Registered: Sep 2011 | From: South Carolina
ThoughtIKnewYa
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Default  Posted: 12:01 AM, April 1st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((((((nekorb)))))))))

Posts: 11401 | Registered: Mar 2008
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 12:02 AM, April 1st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((nekorb & family))))

I am so sorry. Keeping you in heart, thoughts, and prayers.


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crazynot
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Default  Posted: 12:17 AM, April 1st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just a huge (((())), Nekorb, and prayers and good wishes for you and your lovely daughter xx


Me - 50
Him - 51
DDay 21 March 2009
Divorcing and delighted!

Do you want me to tell you something really subversive? Love is everything it's cracked up to be. That's why people are so cynical about it.


Posts: 842 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: UK
5454real
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Default  Posted: 12:39 AM, April 1st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so sorry.

I hope DD gets the help she needs.

Strength and prayers


BH 51, WW 42
DS 23(Mine),SD 21,SS 20(Hers),DS 9 Ours, DGS 3, DGD 1 mo
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 10yrs
I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.
― Sophocles, Antigone

Posts: 2551 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: midwest
Violated
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Default  Posted: 1:18 AM, April 1st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending prayers and strength to you and your dd(s).

Sorry, but I wish I could send a lightening bolt to your H's head. I'm so tired of selfishness.


Divorced 10/2013

Posts: 524 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: West Coast
authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 6:05 AM, April 1st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((((((nekorb and DD)))))))

Prayers to you and your family.


Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."


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yearsofpain25
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Default  Posted: 7:47 AM, April 1st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((nekorb, DD, and family)))

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.


25 years and counting of pain caused by mother's infidelity. Aftermath: 1 deceased sibling, 1 lost family, 3 lost souls.
"Each new day I am just glad to be alive and have survived all that I did." Ashland13

Posts: 1846 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: Northeast US
JanaGreen
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Default  Posted: 7:50 AM, April 1st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so sorry.


We're both in our 30s. One awesome 4-year-old daughter.

Posts: 6555 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: Somewhere in the South
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 7:56 AM, April 1st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((((nekorb)))))) Holding you, your daughter, and your family in my thoughts, honey. I hope she finds the support and help she needs.


You can call me NIK

Wise men talk because they have something to say; fools, because they have to say something.
- Plato


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sad12008
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Default  Posted: 8:07 AM, April 1st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((nekorb, DD, & the rest of the family)))

I'm so sorry and I will definitely be sending positive thoughts your way.

When you say, "medically clear"...that doesn't mean that they're already ready to release her <24 hrs after the incident? (not that it would surprise me)

Sending you strength, nekorb!


"Everybody's life is hard. You look at life, and it's not a cakewalk. You've got to be able to bounce back." --Neil Young, father to two children with CP, another with epilepsy, and otherwise experientially qualified to comment

Posts: 3857 | Registered: Feb 2008 | From: a new start together
tushnurse
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Default  Posted: 8:10 AM, April 1st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Nekorb))))

So difficult to deal with. You should as her parent be able to demand at least a 72hour hold. It sounds like she could use an inpatient stay to get her equaled out a bit.

Praying she gets the help she needs now.


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

Posts: 7802 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
sunandmoon
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Default  Posted: 10:27 AM, April 1st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so very sorry. Thoughts and prayers for you and your DD.

sunandmoon


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imagoodwitch
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Default  Posted: 10:31 AM, April 1st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thoughts and prayers for you both.


I am just your ordinary average everyday sane psycho supergoddess - Liz Phair

Don't keep dancing with the Devil and wonder why you are still in Hell.

It's all shits and giggles until someone giggles and shits.


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