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User Topic: Wounded Healers
Faithful w/Love
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Default  Posted: 11:56 AM, April 1st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

They are not born and they are not made.....

They create themselves through conquering adversity, trail, and error and extreme pain and suffering...

They conquer fear and find a way to speak their truth even when they are afraid.

In doing so they shine light for others who are lost and feeling alone, and in return their inner light ignites with renewed purpose.

A purpose greater than they ever could have imagined!


( This goes out to all the SI support and people who have helped me and loved me here) Thank you!

[This message edited by Faithful w/Love at 11:57 AM, April 1st (Tuesday)]


BS(ME)40 WH(HIM)37
DD 19 and DS 15
Separated Aug 2012
Moved back home Oct 31 2013
False R. Still Lying.
Will be divorcing soon!
"You never know how strong you are until being strong is the only choice you have"!

Posts: 2604 | Registered: Aug 2011
norabird
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Default  Posted: 12:30 PM, April 1st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I love this!!!!


Sit. Feast on your life.

Posts: 3580 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: NYC
cantaccept
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Default  Posted: 6:21 PM, April 1st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

If I could see you in real life I would give you the biggest hug!!!

That was beautiful, the tears for the compassion in your words.

We will heal, we are strong.


Life is change. Growth is optional. Choose wisely.

I would now like to be known as Can!

dday October 21,2012
dday December 20, 2013
wh boots5050
attempted R, it was all a lie

divorcing


Posts: 1232 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: Connecticut
woundedby2
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Default  Posted: 6:28 PM, April 1st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So beautiful. So true.


Me: BS
2 kids: DD15 and DS18
Him: The Assclown NPD
OW: "friend" of 15 years
Divorced! Feb. 2010

Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson


Posts: 7778 | Registered: Mar 2008 | From: SoCal
Caretaker1
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Default  Posted: 6:30 PM, April 1st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow! This was powerful and a great mood lifter. Thank you. I was thinking today how this is by far the biggest stress I have ever gone through, but my inner voice said, you will survive and will be stronger for it, but it comes with a heavy price.

[This message edited by Caretaker1 at 6:31 PM, April 1st (Tuesday)]


Posts: 234 | Registered: Mar 2014
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Default  Posted: 9:38 AM, April 2nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That is a quote that I have to read all the time to know that:

There is something out of all this suffering that I am suppose to learn. To be open to the pain and the suffering even if I hate it. There is a reason that I was chosen just as all of us here, and it is to learn or become closer to the higher to the higher power and to use our wisdom help others through it.

I have learned (as much as I hate it) that this suffering and pain is only for the strong. No one can feel or understand it unless they have gone through it. This has been the most horrific 5 years of my life and still I stand, being strong with a huge heart, compassion for others, a gentle hand when needed, words of encouragement that life is not as bad as we feel, to embrace each tear, each heart pounding, each thought, and know that it is going to be okay. To know that I will survive this with grace and my head held high. I will not let another person bring me to hate them, to take my soul from me. That is what they have inside of them and I don't want to be like that.

We will fear the unknown, we will fear the loss, we will fear the unfairness of it all, but fear can only last as long as you want it to. Have FAITH in yourself each day not fear. Faith that you are someone and you are WORTH EVERYTHING!


BS(ME)40 WH(HIM)37
DD 19 and DS 15
Separated Aug 2012
Moved back home Oct 31 2013
False R. Still Lying.
Will be divorcing soon!
"You never know how strong you are until being strong is the only choice you have"!

Posts: 2604 | Registered: Aug 2011
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