Of course since the I've noticed just how not nice people are. Maybe if I felt like I was in a nice place with nice people I'd be more open to giving dh husband more time to straighten up.
I am over all this shit.
Together 17 years
Two great kids.
He doesn't get it. Moving us to his hometown with his toxic mother is going to
So wait - are you in R? Does your WH not have friends who are decent in this town? Is someone helping you meet some friends?
do you know anyone where you moved to? do you do any activities or anything where you might be able to meet people? im sure its not helping your R if you are not happy with your enviroment.
I don't know ehst r is or what it looks like. I do know I'm lost and consumed with this crsp all day every day.
I don't know where you are in NY, but one thing I do understand is the NY attitude. It's not that NY'ers aren't nice, they just don't do the whole "small talk thing with strangers" very well. Here's the catch--unless there is a reason for it. I know it's strange, but that's how it is. So, if you want to talk to strangers in NY, you need to have a point to your discussion. If you just say, "Hi" they will look at you like you have 3 heads. You need to have a reason for talking to them first. Even if it's just, "What time is it?" or asking for directions or their opinion on a product that you want to buy. If you approach them this way, you will meet people and find out that NY'ers really do have hearts of gold. They just get weirded out when a stranger says, "hi" for no reason. I truly hope that you can find some friends of your own.
Now, your MIL is another story. I have cut ties with mime completely because she is also toxic. UGH. I can't imagine having to live 2 blocks away. But if it's a NY block, it could be a LONG block.
"Your value doesn't decrease based on someone's inability to see your worth." -Unknown Wise Person