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User Topic: Abbondad's New Beginning
Abbondad
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Member # 37898
Default  Posted: 4:23 AM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good morning, New Beginnings Friends!

I am SO glad I can finally join you :-)

Whew!!!


Divorced April Fool's Day 2014

Fear is the mind-killer.
Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration.
I will face my fear.
I will permit it to pass over me and through me.
-Dune


Posts: 1573 | Registered: Dec 2012
seekingright2013
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Member # 37991
Default  Posted: 4:27 AM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Welcome, Abbondad! Lots of encouragement and wisdom here, glad you made it!


BSO, 53
exWSO, who cares
DD: 11/18/12
DD2: 11/21/12
Kicked him to the curb 11/21/12
“I tramp a perpetual journey.”
― Walt Whitman, Song of Myself

Posts: 116 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Red State SE US
DeadMumWalking
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Member # 25341
Default  Posted: 6:12 AM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Woo Hoooooo!!!!


Me (BS), Him (WH): early 50's
3 DS: teens!!! :)
M: 24 (19 1/2 at Dday), Together 29
Dday: Dec 2008
re-separated (in-house), for good (??) <-- should really remove these, shouldn't I...

Posts: 2538 | Registered: Aug 2009 | From: EU
SBB
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Member # 35229
Default  Posted: 6:20 AM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Have I mentioned how much I love it that your divorce was finalised on April Fools Day? I love it. Wish it was 2013 alas 2014 is better than 2015.

Welcome, friend. We're a nice bunch here. Mind the threads about pubic hair stylings and BOBs - you strike me as a raging blusher.


Buzz- The word you are searching for is 'Space-Ranger.'
Woody- The word I'm searching for, I can't say, because there are Pre-school toys here.

Posts: 5444 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
wildbananas
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Member # 10552
Default  Posted: 8:07 AM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Welcome!


Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan

Posts: 15362 | Registered: Apr 2006 | From: Now an AZ girl
IrishLass518
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Member # 34373
Default  Posted: 8:15 AM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Welcome AD


Me: 45 BS Divorced
Him: 45 Married OW
DDay: 07/04/2008
Divorced: 06/15/2011
5 kids: IrishLass 27,IrishLad 25, IrishLass 22, IrishLad 21 and IrishLad 12
"You can't run from trouble..there ain't no place that far"

Posts: 1677 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: WA
Williesmom
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Member # 22870
Default  Posted: 8:17 AM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Welcome!

And welcome to the new life of Abbondad. You'll be fine.


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 7435 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
little turtle
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Member # 15584
Default  Posted: 8:47 AM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Welcome!!! I'm looking forward to hearing about your adventures as a divorced dad.


Failure is success if we learn from it.

Posts: 4131 | Registered: Aug 2007 | From: michigan
getnbtr1
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Member # 40540
Default  Posted: 8:52 AM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

waving hi.

Posts: 93 | Registered: Sep 2013 | From: CT
FaithFool
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Member # 20150
Default  Posted: 8:54 AM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

SBB!

Dad, so glad you made it to our side. Mind your step.


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17171 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
Chrysalis123
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Member # 27148
Default  Posted: 9:05 AM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hello!!!!


Don’t get to the end of your life and find that you lived only the length of it; live the width of it as well. 

Posts: 2608 | Registered: Jan 2010
nowiknow23
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Member # 33226
Default  Posted: 9:07 AM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Welcome to NB, AD!


You can call me NIK

Wise men talk because they have something to say; fools, because they have to say something.
- Plato


Posts: 24440 | Registered: Aug 2011
hexed
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Member # 19258
Default  Posted: 9:46 AM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hi AD

welcome to the next phase


But that's just a lot of water
Underneath a bridge I burned
And there's no use in backtracking
Around corners I have turned

“Many of us crucify ourselves between two thieves - regret for the past and fear of the future.” -foulton oursler


Posts: 8407 | Registered: Apr 2008
Undefinabl3
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Member # 36883
Default  Posted: 11:56 AM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So glad you are here!!! Let the NB's begin!


Me: 31 MH
Him: 37 MH
New online find 6/19/14 - shit

Posts: 1694 | Registered: Sep 2012
k94ever
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Member # 11176
Default  Posted: 1:31 PM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

If a thread here says TMI it really means TMI. Open at your own risk.

And welcome. We are fun, but not crazy

k9


BS: 56
WS: 53
Betrayed: 23 years
Affairs: 14 (2 lasted 3 months. Rest were ONS)
WS died: 16 May 2011
Do not stay in your hurt forever. Choose to move out of it.

Posts: 6456 | Registered: Jul 2006 | From: Wisconsin
emmybear
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Member # 42934
Default  Posted: 1:35 PM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congrats! Here's to new beginnings



Posts: 12 | Registered: Mar 2014 | From: USA
heartbroken_kk
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Default  Posted: 3:16 PM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Welcome AD!

You will like this forum, it is a place of continued healing and closure, and a fresh look at moving on into your own new future.


BW then 46, STBXWHNPDPAFTG the destroyer of my entire life.
D-Day 1 1999, D-Day 2,3,4,5,6... 2009 thru 2011.

Separated, divorcing, moving on.
I edit because I always make typos.


Posts: 1092 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: California
ProbableIceCream
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Member # 37468
Default  Posted: 8:01 PM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I just had this hilarious picture of you going through the plot of Escape by Rupert Holmes, except it's your XWW who shows up at O'Malley's and there's a record scratch and the song stops.

Sorry, I have a twisted imagination. Good luck with your new life!


Me: born 1982.
DD: born 2006 (I have abt 80% custody).
My D-Day was April 2012. Divorced Jul 2013.

Posts: 692 | Registered: Nov 2012
RavenWood
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Member # 39847
Default  Posted: 9:12 PM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Welcome aboard!


BS: Me (30s)
WW: Her (30s)
10 year marriage with 2 small children.
OM: Married coworker
Status: Divorced.
DDay: May 2013

Posts: 52 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: RavenWood
million pieces
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Member # 27539
Default  Posted: 9:30 PM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Welcome!!!!


Me - 42
2 kids, 9 and 11
D-Day 2/5/10, separated 3 wks later
Divorced 11/15/11!!!!

Posts: 1231 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: MD
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