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User Topic: Abbondad's New Beginning
fraeuken
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Default  Posted: 9:38 PM, April 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Welcome. After all the pain and drama, this is a great place to be. We do struggle and we do go a bit stir crazy at times, but for the most part the lemonade is flowing from all the lemons we were handed.


Temporarily independent with the whole world at my feet.

Posts: 1260 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: California
Abbondad
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Member # 37898
Default  Posted: 7:39 AM, April 4th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you for the warm welcomes, everyone!

you strike me as a raging blusher.

Au contraire, SBB. :-)


Divorced April Fool's Day 2014

Fear is the mind-killer.
Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration.
I will face my fear.
I will permit it to pass over me and through me.
-Dune


Posts: 1627 | Registered: Dec 2012
velveteer
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Member # 30997
Default  Posted: 3:46 PM, April 4th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ha! Welcome to the other side AD!! You'll like it here.


Divorced

Posts: 877 | Registered: Jan 2011
ProbableIceCream
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Default  Posted: 3:49 PM, April 4th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's actually a cycle.

Just Found Out -> Reconciliation (optional) -> Divorce/Separation -> New Beginnings -> Just Found Out -> ...

Sorry.. I enjoy dark humor.


Me, 32. DD, 8. DS, 6 (deceased).

Posts: 842 | Registered: Nov 2012
Abbondad
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Member # 37898
Default  Posted: 6:27 AM, April 5th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Just Found Out -> Reconciliation (optional) -> Divorce/Separation -> New Beginnings -> Just Found Out -> ...

God, I hope not! :-)


Divorced April Fool's Day 2014

Fear is the mind-killer.
Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration.
I will face my fear.
I will permit it to pass over me and through me.
-Dune


Posts: 1627 | Registered: Dec 2012
timeforchange
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Default  Posted: 9:20 AM, April 5th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Welcome good to see you hear at last 😀😀😀

I guess part of the healing in New beginnings is doing all we can to ensure we never end up In Just Found Out again.

My time here has helped me refind the person I lost in my marriage. She will never be lost again 😃😃😃

I have also taken time to ensure I was healthier and top notch At spotting red flags 😀😀😀

I wish these 2 things for you 😃😃😃

Can't wait to see how life unfolds for you.

Those of us with NPD ex spouses still have to deal with their
crap but from observation it seems that things generally calm Down once the divorces are final.

Wishing you and your 2 precious kids all the happiness you deserve.


Me = BS aged 43
2 boys, 13 and 9
DDay 1/19/10
Confronted him 2/16/10
Finally Divorced 8/29/12

“We must let go of the life we have planned, so as to accept the one that is waiting for us.”


Posts: 726 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: Expats in Europe
idkam
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Default  Posted: 7:57 PM, April 5th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Here's a toast AD. Welcome to the other side.


People come into your life for a Reason, Season or a Lifetime..
Divorced

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