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User Topic: Confessing vs getting caught
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Default  Posted: 7:59 PM, April 5th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Mine was caught, and gas lighted me for two months before admitting it. Several months of angry venting toward me followed. Confession? Seems better, but I would have settled for caught + remorseful. Unremorseful sucks.

I think others are right, in that we often imagine a different situation would be better. Mine *only* pursued affairs unsuccessfully (ummm, except for this hpv that apparently came from a toilet seat) for three years. A ONS seems better, but I'll bet one of you whose WS did that would be willing to trade me.

Me: BS - 50; Him: WH - 51, vulnerable NPD
married 19 years, 3 kids
DD1 4/22/13 (hpv diagnosis)
DD2 5/9/13 (gaslighting begins)
DD3 6/30/13 (admits EA)
DD4 7/7/13 admits "trying to date other women" for 3 years

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