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User Topic: Sex after an A
ChinaCat
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Default  Posted: 4:23 PM, April 6th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

First of all, you are a strong beautiful person! You are sexually unique, and I bet you are far more fierce and full of prowess than you know. you are a treasure and deserve to be won back. Don't ever forget that you are amazing, and DESERVE a partner that adores you for being you.
I don't care of the OP poops rainbows or pees sunshine! That person is Nothing compared to you!


"Every time I stay out late; every time I sleep in; every time I miss a workout; every time I don't give 100% - I make it that much easier for him to beat me!"
Me: BS & Beautiful!

Posts: 80 | Registered: Mar 2014 | From: USA
mchercheur
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Default  Posted: 4:57 PM, April 6th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sorry, I can't find it. It was from a couple of months ago, I think. Maybe someone else will remember


together 25 yrs, married 24 yrs, 4 children;Rebuilding
D Day: 5/10/2011 PA
OW: WH's co-worker,divorced, no children, 20 yrs younger than I-----& she knew he was married, had met our kids, but that did not stop her from trying to destroy our family

Posts: 1397 | Registered: Dec 2012
silverhopes
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Default  Posted: 6:34 PM, April 6th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Is it this one?

http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=524951


Find peace. Or sleep on it.
Sometimes my monkeys, sometimes my circus.
Infidelities are like icebergs - they may take many different shapes and sizes, but they all damage your ship.

Posts: 3905 | Registered: Jul 2011 | From: California
mchercheur
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Default  Posted: 7:16 PM, April 6th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yes Silverhopes, that is the thread!


together 25 yrs, married 24 yrs, 4 children;Rebuilding
D Day: 5/10/2011 PA
OW: WH's co-worker,divorced, no children, 20 yrs younger than I-----& she knew he was married, had met our kids, but that did not stop her from trying to destroy our family

Posts: 1397 | Registered: Dec 2012
krispy47
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Default  Posted: 10:52 AM, April 7th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks, Silverhopes. That was both thoroughly depressing and quite useful. It made for a good springboard of discussion with my WH.

I still feel like crap about being compared and found lacking, but also have hope that tenderness, emotional connection and honest vulnerability will at least equal acrobatics.

Of course, once the hysterical bonding wears off, it may not matter much to me anyway!


Me: 47 WH: 48
Married 22 years, 4 kids
DDay: 3/5/14, 7 yr LTA plus rising ONS body count
Status: currently riding the coaster from hell

Posts: 107 | Registered: Mar 2014 | From: Virginia
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