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User Topic: Triggering
littleflower
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Member # 42673
Default  Posted: 8:46 PM, April 5th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow
I have been feeling off all day

Just worked out its because it's my 2 year olds birthday tomorrow and the OW was the mid wife for him too !


DD 13/1/14
Him WH
OW now X BFF
3 kids under 4

Posts: 95 | Registered: Mar 2014
shygirl07
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Member # 42972
Default  Posted: 9:02 PM, April 5th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

littleflower,
WOW I can imagine how you feel. I don't have kids but I am sure they bring you a lot of joy. This woman sounds like total garbage and scum. I hope she enjoys the fact she broke up a family . Piece of crap under your shoe she is . Its okay though, what goes around will come around. Remember you have a good heart and she doesn't , that's priceless. I hope you enjoy your 2 year olds birthday :)


me:27
him:30

OW was his ex he always convinced was his friend .. moved in her and knocked her up , got together behind my back


Ddays : many in 2009 and 2010
final dday : Sept 2012 after being broken up 3 weeks..
"when you know bette


Posts: 57 | Registered: Apr 2014
littleflower
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Member # 42673
Default  Posted: 9:06 PM, April 5th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

At least his party his next weekend , I really would not have been able to cope with it today.
I really wasn't expecting to trigger like this until June which is when the A started


DD 13/1/14
Him WH
OW now X BFF
3 kids under 4

Posts: 95 | Registered: Mar 2014
toughernow
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Member # 40915
Default  Posted: 9:09 PM, April 5th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((((littleflower)))))))

You have every right to feel whatever you are feeling.

I can't imagine what it would be like to have to share (in this twisted, sick way) the most precious and sacred moment of my life as women with this women who helped my H betray me.

Look into the face of that beautiful child and know in your heart that you are a Queen. She is absolutely nothing.


BS (Me) - 47
WS(Him) -48

Married 23 years - together for 29 years


DDay - June 10th 2012 then TT'd-June 2012 - July 2012 (and beyond????)
2 amazing children

"Understanding love is one of the hardest things in life." - Fred Rogers


Posts: 98 | Registered: Oct 2013
littleflower
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Member # 42673
Default  Posted: 9:59 PM, April 5th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Mainly I want to ring the XBFF and tell her what a ho bag she is - and other things

Blah !


DD 13/1/14
Him WH
OW now X BFF
3 kids under 4

Posts: 95 | Registered: Mar 2014
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