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User Topic: Was it Something I Said?
Harriet
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Default  Posted: 11:41 PM, April 5th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My ex is giving me the 180!

Ever since an episode where my son lied to me, and I texted the ex about it, my ex refuses to even look at me. He went from seeking me out and texting me to nothing.

All I said was, "Do I have to assume that people will generally be dishonest with me? It really hurts."

I must have hit a nerve! At first I was seriously pissed. Now I find it is somewhat of a relief. He is showing his true colors...the coward.

This is great for me as it requires no effort now to maintain the 180.


D-Day Spring 2008
3 years false R
Divorce Final 6/7/12

Posts: 464 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: California
Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 2:08 AM, April 6th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Enjoy!


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9687 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 9:39 AM, April 6th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


You can call me NIK

"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
-Hayley Williams


Posts: 25393 | Registered: Aug 2011
Pass
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Member # 38122
Default  Posted: 5:11 PM, April 6th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So that's ALL you said? Just looking for the recipe to try and get the same treatment from The Princess! I want to make sure I get it right.


Loyal spouse: Me; Disloyal spouse: The Princess
Two sons: Now 11 and 14
DDay: Nov 15, 2012
Separated: Mar 2, 2013 after 17 year marriage, now divorcing!

The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous


Posts: 1944 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Ottawa, Ontario, Canada
Harriet
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Member # 34543
Default  Posted: 11:43 PM, April 8th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Pass
That really was all I said.
He still isn't speaking to me.


D-Day Spring 2008
3 years false R
Divorce Final 6/7/12

Posts: 464 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: California
h0peless
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Default  Posted: 11:47 PM, April 8th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

One time when my ex wasn't talking to me, I said "is this supposed to be punishment?" She started talking to me again. loudly. I learned my lesson.

Silence is golden.


Posts: 1685 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Baja Arizona
lastdance
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Default  Posted: 1:34 AM, April 9th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage




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