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User Topic: I was abusive. He cheated.
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Default  Posted: 9:03 AM, April 8th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

As far as working on my abuse, I realised it before he left, and was starting to work on it, but I didn't actually go for help from another party until he left. I knew it was bad that I did that, but I was so surrounded by it, that it didn't quite hit me.

When he left, I looked further into myself, and realised I'm just like my parents, and that is my driving factor - my mother is the most hateful, miserable person, and I am NOT going to be like that. I want to be happy, I want to be free.

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Default  Posted: 12:15 PM, April 8th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm really sorry you're going through this, as well. How long ago did H leave?

He hasnt yet.

Married '03 - DD1 '01, DD2,3 '13, DD4 '14
3 kids 7y and 4y twins
me - sahm since '07, him - idk him any more
Just when the caterpillar thought the world was over, it became a butterfly.

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