For a while, I did feel like I was his second choice. I felt like he was "stuck" with me since we were married.
It's only been in the last couple of months since I came to realize that I'm a kick a** choice. He'd be an idiot not to do everything in his power to be with me.
Don't get me wrong. I'm no size 2 teenie bopper super model by a long shot. I have some meat on my bones and some age under my belt, but I'm no dog. I'm a good person. I worked hard and did well for myself financially. I am not a reckless spender. I am faithful and loyal. My house isn't spotless, but I do keep a clean home.
I have a lot to offer a relationship. I'm not perfect by any stretch of the imagination, but I do not have to be perfect to have value.
WH made a huge mistake when he forgot my worth. I made a bigger one by forgetting it for a little while too. It's taken me a lot of IC to help me remember how much I bring to the table and that he is lucky to have me.BW: 41
Married 18 years. SD: 25 from his 1st. M. DS: 20 from 1st M. DD: 16 (autistic)
D-day: Oct. 2013 with ongoing revelations.
6 affairs, 1 OC, My sister was OW#5 with countless attempted A's.
Considering R but fully ready to D.