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morethantrying
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Default  Posted: 9:02 PM, April 8th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thoughts on the EFFORT and trying to have confidence in myself that I will heal

...trying to have trust nmyself that forgiving is good for ME and that I will do it...I may have to revisit it over and over but I will get there...this is a place I WANT to be...this is most true to who I am

...Giving myself a break that I AM doing the best that I can

...Giving myself a break that every time I TRY to move on,love, forgive, just by this trying I AM being true to who I am and what I believe

....who said living your own values was going to be easy?

Its in the effort that I show that I am being true to who I am ... the effort is worth it for ME

[This message edited by morethantrying at 9:02 PM, April 8th (Tuesday)]


Affairs - hard on us both - but love will win.
Me: BS 55
Him: WS 62
Married 32 yrs.
dday TT from 12/2012-2/2013)...

Posts: 275 | Registered: Sep 2013
FixYou71
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Default  Posted: 10:05 PM, April 8th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I agree. Nice to kind of lay that out there as something to look at and focus on. Good for you! I pray you get there.


BS: 43
H: 49
Dday #1 Oct 2007 (Porn for 2 yrs)
Dday #2 May 2013 (Porn for 5 more yrs))
Dday#3 May 2014 (finally admitted to drunk kissing OW in 1994: the 2nd drunken kiss with another woman during our M)
DD 21 and DS 17
Married 1993

Posts: 451 | Registered: Mar 2014
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