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User Topic: What does this mean?
Smashedat58
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Default  Posted: 9:37 PM, April 8th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Monday we met with attorneys and facilitator for signing of agreement to collaborate on separation/divorce settlement. Tonight, the STBXH asked if he could come over next week for our daughter's birthday party. I am shocked that he he would even ask. What an insensitive bastard, he is. To think that his family he has hurt by his selfishness, would want him to be with us at a party. Tonight he is emailing me old photos of our children and me. I hope he feels lonely, drinks himself into a stupor, and sleeps in his vomit. I would love to have a photo of that to frame and hang in my bedroom.

Posts: 166 | Registered: Dec 2013 | From: Upstate New York
SBB
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Default  Posted: 9:53 PM, April 8th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I hope he feels lonely, drinks himself into a stupor, and sleeps in his vomit.

That's the spirit! No photo though - not even a dartboard. Who'd want his manky mug messing up your environment?

Almost all of them try to take this walk down memory lane (aka Gaslight Lane). Nostalgia about a time before they had consequences for their actions. Diddums.

In all of the photos I have of my girls during that M I remember how awfully I was treated and how much he was deceiving me during that time. Well before I stopped pretending not to notice - well before I knew why. He took most of the (rare) photos of me and my girls and I remember begging him each time and how mean he was about it. Arsehole.

It is a family party - you are not my family so you're not invited. Look up the word Divorce in the dictionary - it's right there in between Cheating and Syphilis.


I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

Posts: 5609 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
Thinkingtoomuch
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Suspicious  Posted: 10:06 PM, April 8th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


I feel he might have an agenda as a reason for wanting to come night of the birthday party. Just makes me wonder. After the agreement signing...Hmmm.

Tonight he is emailing me old photos of our children and me.

Sounds suspiciously manipulative.


Therefore keep this attitude:

I hope he feels lonely, drinks himself into a stupor, and sleeps in his vomit. I would love to have a photo of that to frame and hang in my bedroom


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norabird
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Default  Posted: 11:32 PM, April 8th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Honey, the man sleeps in his vomit every night--he's sleeping on his face, right?


Sit. Feast on your life.

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Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 1:14 AM, April 9th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9827 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
RedWheelBarrow
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Default  Posted: 1:45 AM, April 9th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It means he's messing with your mind. Because he feels entitled, dontcha know. I have one of these peculiar STBX pests as well.


Me: BW 50
Him:Rockstar late 50's
DS: 10 , so precious.
Married 14 years, together 17 years
DDay #1 Nov.2012, plus more, more, more!
OW : 25 years younger than him, left her BH for my prize beast.
He moved in with her April,2013.
Divorced!

Posts: 118 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: NW
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