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User Topic: He wants my Apple ID login? Advice please
nekorb
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Default  Posted: 2:24 PM, April 9th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

WH says some of the apps on his phone are tied into my Apple ID and he needs my password.

Does this seem strange to anyone else? Last time I checked you could only sync to one appleID.


Me: BS 44; Him: WH 47 aka CAT- colossal asshat; Married 22 years
D-day: July 17, 2013, with TT to follow
D filed July 16, 2014, 363 days later than I should have
Psalms 27:14
Wait for The Lord; be strong and take heart. Wait for the Lord.

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devistatedmom
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Default  Posted: 2:27 PM, April 9th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have my phone and my ipad linked to the same apple ID. I wouldn't give him my ID. Ask him what it is he wants from the ID. Unfortunately, I don't believe he can transfer them to a new one...he will have to get is own ID and buy them again. That's a consequence of his actions. I mean, most apps are free or fairly cheap. It's not like it will cost him a ton.


BS(me) 46, Two wonderful teens.
He is no longer my best friend. Repeat until it sticks.

WH says marriage is over: May 15, 2009.
EA#2 July 20, 2009. Legally sep: Aug 16, 2009. DIVORCED!!!! Signed Nov 23, final Dec 24, 2010, adultery listed.


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brokenblackbird
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Default  Posted: 2:40 PM, April 9th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

He needs to get his own Apple ID.

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nekorb
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Default  Posted: 3:00 PM, April 9th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

He already has his own Apple ID which his stuff is already synced with.


Me: BS 44; Him: WH 47 aka CAT- colossal asshat; Married 22 years
D-day: July 17, 2013, with TT to follow
D filed July 16, 2014, 363 days later than I should have
Psalms 27:14
Wait for The Lord; be strong and take heart. Wait for the Lord.

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justabrokendream
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Default  Posted: 3:05 PM, April 9th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My advice - tell him to go f himself.....

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Leia
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Default  Posted: 3:07 PM, April 9th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What I had to do was do a master reset on my iphone. There are instructions on how to do this. DO NOT give him your Apple ID and password! He can reset and redownload under his own name. It is pretty easy.


"Somebody get this walking carpet out of my way." Princess Leia, Star Wars

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GabyBaby
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Default  Posted: 3:08 PM, April 9th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Don't give it to him.
He's simply going to have to uninstall the apps linked to your account, buy them under his own ID, then reinstall.

Likewise if you purchased any under his Apple ID.


Me - 42
SorryInSac (WH#2) - 47. DDay 7/12/14
Married 4, together 7yrs total
Status - Stick a fork in me...

DD(21), DS(18, PDD-NOS)
6 Furkids - 4 dogs, 2 cats

WXH (serial cheater, 12+ OW) - Legally married 18yrs

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nekorb
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Default  Posted: 3:08 PM, April 9th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm wondering if he's trying to remotely install spyware on my phone...


Me: BS 44; Him: WH 47 aka CAT- colossal asshat; Married 22 years
D-day: July 17, 2013, with TT to follow
D filed July 16, 2014, 363 days later than I should have
Psalms 27:14
Wait for The Lord; be strong and take heart. Wait for the Lord.

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Faithful w/Love
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Default  Posted: 3:22 PM, April 9th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Would he be willing to give you his ID and password? I think NOT! DO not give him jack shit! Let him go to the store or call and they can help his tardass!


BS(ME)40 WH(HIM)38
DD 20 and DS 15
Separated Aug 2012
Moved back home Oct 31 2013
Separated again June 2014. Heading toward divorce.
False R. Still Lying.

"You never know how strong you are until being strong is all you have left"


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Softcentre
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Default  Posted: 3:25 PM, April 9th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Probably...or look at your chats etc. No reason for him to have it. Stay strong.


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OW - EA - 'Holy Chick'
COW - Suspected EA/PA 'The Ambassador'
COW - Susp EA 'The Baker'
COW - EA/PA 'Fat Bottomed Girl'
COW - Susp EA 'MiniMe'

Posts: 1049 | Registered: May 2013 | From: UK
betrayedfriend
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Default  Posted: 3:27 PM, April 9th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Do not give it to him, he doesn't need it.


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BrokenDaisy
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Default  Posted: 3:29 PM, April 9th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

He can also track you or erase all your phone data with the FindMe app if he has your details. I wouldn't give it to him. No way.


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1 wonderful toddler - sole legal custody to me and supervised visitation to xwh.
DDay 01/2012
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Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 3:30 PM, April 9th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My advice - tell him to go f himself.....

Exactly what I would advise, word for word.


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
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Rainbows
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Default  Posted: 3:44 PM, April 9th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I had this issue with the ex, where I originally downloaded apps under his id to my phone.

He didn't give me his login credentials, but it gave me the option to put them under my id.

He can move them under his own id and doesn't need keys to the castle.


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GabyBaby
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Default  Posted: 3:48 PM, April 9th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

t/j
it gave me the option to put them under my id.

How do you do this?
My DS18 has his own apple ID now, but has a bunch of things he bought while a minor under my ID.
It'd be good to transfer them without having to repurchase.


Me - 42
SorryInSac (WH#2) - 47. DDay 7/12/14
Married 4, together 7yrs total
Status - Stick a fork in me...

DD(21), DS(18, PDD-NOS)
6 Furkids - 4 dogs, 2 cats

WXH (serial cheater, 12+ OW) - Legally married 18yrs

I edit often for clarity.


Posts: 6520 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: California
Tearsoflove
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Default  Posted: 4:37 PM, April 9th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Even if he has to repurchase every app on his phone, do not give him your apple ID information. He could want to install spyware so it's there when you sync. He could also want to access your icloud. He might just want to charge up a bunch of crap and blame you. There is no good reason for him to have your information if you are not reconciling.


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ajsmom
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Default  Posted: 4:40 PM, April 9th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

As others have said, no. He can get the aps on his own account without a problem.

I'd also change the password NOW to something he could never come up with. Chances are when you say no he'll try everything under the sun to figure it out.

Make it something like sitoldmeno! (SI told me no!).


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Lilypad
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Default  Posted: 4:42 PM, April 9th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Nekorb are you in Canada? Do you have your own carrier account for your phone? No don't give him your apple ID whatever you do. He is feeding you a load of crap.

I work for a cell phone company and he doesn't need this.


“You can make mistakes, but you are not a failure until you blame others for those mistakes.” -John Wooden

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nekorb
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Default  Posted: 4:58 PM, April 9th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks everyone.

My response for right now is going to be crickets.


Me: BS 44; Him: WH 47 aka CAT- colossal asshat; Married 22 years
D-day: July 17, 2013, with TT to follow
D filed July 16, 2014, 363 days later than I should have
Psalms 27:14
Wait for The Lord; be strong and take heart. Wait for the Lord.

Posts: 1838 | Registered: Aug 2013
thenon-goddess
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Default  Posted: 5:24 PM, April 9th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You can't have aps from two apple id's on a phone, so if he's telling you "some of his aps" he's lying. Glad to hear you're going crickets. I'd also be tempted to change my ID to something really obscure (if its not already) so that he can't guess his way in.


Status: divorcing - I can see the light at the end of the tunnel!

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