My attitude has changed in respect to this.
In the beginning, I didn't want it at all. He didn't keep them the first time, why go through the "charade" again?
At this point in R however, I think that if we stay together, we need to do this. For me the A was a divorce without the paperwork. So, for me this would not be so much a vow renewal as a REmarriage.
I want to do it eventually. But not yet.